I don’t recall seeing this discussed much on here of late.
I have a Buddy and his mother who I am helping plan a trip (or at least I am try to help).
They are planning the “trip of a lifetime” and don’t expect to every get back to Europe so they are planning a three week trip that will hit a number of locations (not to horribly high a number but traveling reasonably fast), They want me to go. In part to share the trip experience and in part because while I am not the most frequent traveler to Europe i have a bit of experience.
I am trying de decide if A) I can afford the trip and B) if I want to go.
This got me thinking. What are others experiences when invited to travel with others. My recent trips to Europe were all with my Father and we were very in sync as far as travel style and interests. So that worked very well.
Thoughts on this subject (some apply to my current situation some do not)
1) Travel itinerary. How do you determine where and how long? For example if one wants to spend longer in city A or one person on the trip has already been to a location.. how do you work this out?
2) travel budget. Not just the overall budget but how do you agree upon priorities. For example one person wants to spend more or less than the other(s) on hotel’s. For example When I travel in the US I look for inexpensive hotels that are clean and conveniently located but my sister prefers staying at places that are “interesting “ which invariably means more expensive. On the other hand I would spend a bit more in Europe to May my commute easier. I had an overnight stay in one city a few years ago and it was one night in a city where I dropped off my car spent a day in the city and transferred to train travel. That time I stayed in a hotel adjacent to the train station and it was easy to check in, drop off the car and catch the train the next morning. The hotel was nothing much but it shad a convenient location, but it was more expensive then staying farther out, but in my opinion the convenience was more then worth it. I would rather spend a bit extra and avoid an hour trip on the subway to get into the city. So how do you deal with that.
3). Food. How do you manage to go a full trip without disagreeing on where to eat? Assuming you have a reasonably compatible view on food it is still likely that at some point one of you will want a large meal while the other wants a small factor cheep meal or whatever. It can be a pain to get folks to agree upon a restaurant for one night in tgier home city how do you get an agreement for two or three weeks for all three meals? Do you occasionally split up?
4). Do you split up occasionally to see different things in a city? If you have different interests or one of you has been there before? For example I once spent a couple hours in Westminster Abbey in the new Gallery just looking at the way the building was built. My father spent most of that time taking a long rest on a bench.
5). Who pays for what? I assume that hotels, flights, food and what have you are paid for individually or split equally, however you get dumb things like taxis or buying bottles of water or what have you. I bring this up because in the US you see people arguing over the check at restaurants all the time. S how do you manage this without it causing issues.
These are just my first thoughts on the subject, I am sure those that have travelled with friends have more thoughts.
Another question is if you decide the trip is not for you, how do you gracefully say no thanks?
Anyway just a few thoughts,