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Shorts Question--it's not just for American's anymore!

I monitor the New York City forum on TripAdvisor and as long time member of this forum you can imagine my shock at seeing this thread: Wearing Shorts for Lunch- and the question was posed by someone from the UK. What was more stunning were the comments that "no one in NYC wears shorts" and "this is a fancy place so you need to dress up" out weighed the more sensible comments about whether or not the weather was warm enough for shorts. One person even said that a man could wear shorts, but not a woman! These are the restaurants that are so hoity toity that a tourist is advised to go back to her hotel and change for lunch: Peter Lugers and Minetta Tavern. I actually think that the fact that Peter Lugers doesn't take credit cards would be more relevant.

So, what do you think? Is turn about fair play? Do we insist that these Brits and Aussies go back to their hotels and drss up for lunch? Or do we give them the same advice that we give American traveling in Europe?

Here are the links to earlier discussions to refresh your memory. 2014, 2012, 2011, 2010, 2009, and 2007.

Good to get this topic discussed at the beginning of the season!

Pam

Posted by
32700 posts

When I was somewhat younger and lived on Long Island just a 10 mile bike ride from Times Square (not that we EVER went to Times Square) I don't believe I ever saw a man with shorts on in New York.

Shorts, as far as I was concerned were for bicycle riding, long distance running, and going to either Jones Beach on the south shore or Sunken Meadow State Park on the north shore.

Shorts were simply not done for doing anything out in New York. Not for going out anywhere.

Maybe a back yard barbeque or for playing stickball...

Posted by
15 posts

I grew up in Brooklyn and still have family and friends that live and work in Manhattan. I go home at least once a year so I am speaking as a visitor. To say that "no one wears shorts". especially visitors sounds a bit off. NYC is one of the highest rank destinations in the world. Try dealing with summer heat in the 90's, humidity at 90% in a subway and you would kill someone for shorts. If you are planning on dining at Le Cirque, Peter Lugers, or any of the Zagat's top 20 - sure, dress for the occasion. For sightseeing around the city, it is totally acceptable to be comfortable.

Nigel - if you lived a 10 mile bike ride from Times Square, you were maybe in Long Island City, but not Long Island.

Posted by
8293 posts

Here's what must be considered. Do you have the legs for shorts?

Posted by
2446 posts

New Yorkers visiting southern CA often express exasperation at being judged for the kind of car they drive, rather than what people should be judged for, namely, their clothes and furniture.
Doing what you want to do always leads to anarchy, so it is very important to learn the local customs and then follow them, to be more local than the locals. Slavery to fashion is an empowering kind of slavery. Do as I say and you can be king.

Posted by
16893 posts

Shorts have been a high-fashion item for women in the past few years, including for fall. If someone is looking down their nose at yours, I'll assume it's just because they're not the "right" shorts.

Posted by
870 posts

Bermuda shorts with the right shoes are always stylish for men or women.

I actually own and wear a pair of tuxedo shorts!

Posted by
5835 posts

Yes, Burmuda shorts. Somewhat formal in that they originated as British military wear. Now the question: Which are more formal, cuffed or uncuffed Burmuda shorts?

Of course the knee-lenght socks are what make them formal wear.

Posted by
8124 posts

In the Deep South, we only wear long pants to church and to work. It's a matter of comfort with average Summer temperatures of 95+ degrees
When in Italy, I do wear long pants, as chances are we'll be touring a church. Elsewhere, I'd be in shorts in Summer.

But we don't travel to Europe when the temperatures are hottest as we go in April or October.

Posted by
5678 posts

So, I revisited the TA thread to see if there were any words of wisdom that we could heed hear on the Rick Steves Forum and I rather liked this comment and I think it applies to the Forum as well.


"...dont forget when you ask questions here [TripAdvisor] you are encountering all kinds - I don't ask my mother for fashion advice because I wont like the answer."


Pam

Posted by
14939 posts

As a born and bred New Yorker, the rules for those living in Manhattan were simple:

No shorts Monday through Friday but they were totally acceptable in summer, on weekends, especially if heading to Central Park. For those who didn't leave the city those days, Central Park was an oasis of green where trees didn't grow out of the cement, bicycles and roller skates could be used without the fear of being run over by a taxi, and those who suffered in the gym the last three seasons could show off their results in the summer.

During the work week, however, shorts were only worn by tourists and children.

As for the other four boroughs, the wearing of shorts is more acceptable as these locales are considered to be more residential. That is, of course, as long as you not only had the legs for it, but they weren't pasty white after a winter in corduroy.

Posted by
4535 posts

"Especially in southern Europe, no matter how hot it is, grown adults look goofy in shorts."

This is as true now as it was true then. The only difference is people just don't care.

Posted by
9420 posts

Pam, loved that quote from TA. So true.

And as far as Rick's opinion of what looks goofy... the pot calling the kettle black.

Posted by
1232 posts

If it's hot, I wear shorts. If I am in Cinque Terre, I wear shorts, and "horrors", flip flops, because I am at the beach. I bought my favorite pair in Vernazza! If it's cool, I wear jeans. I don't really care what people think, I am clean and comfortable, and do not wear offensive clothing. I am on vacation to relax, not to worry about being a fashion statement.