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Paris or Venice Mother/Young Daughter Trip??

Our family is taking a long-anticipated trip to Europe this summer! (I lived in Germany for 2 years but haven’t been back in 10+ years.) As a 40th birthday surprise & BEST gift ever, I’m going to have some solo travel time with my older son and daughter before and after our family trip. Before the trip, my son (9) and I will visit a friend in Copenhagen + Legoland together. After the trip my husband will fly home with my two boys, and my daughter (6) and I will have a couple special days with my friend and her young daughter in Berlin and then fly to a new location before heading home.

We will likely not be able to do this again for a long while, so I want to choose well. I can’t decide between Paris and Venice for this trip with my daughter. I have been to both. Paris would be fun with my daughter “Francie” who we sometimes call “France” for short. I know she’d love the Eiffel Tower and a Seine cruise, but Venice feels dreamy in general and I’ve never done the day trips to nearby islands (Burano, Murano). We will have 4.5 days. She is excited about both, and we can access both easily.

I’d be so thankful and welcome any input you might have on activities and day trips in both areas. Bonus points if you have ideas with kids! Thanks so much!

**Edit to say we are traveling mid-July 2025

Posted by
2997 posts

I have a colleague and her husband who took their three kids ages 2, 6 and 9 to Venice and had a marvelous time. They took the older two to Paris a few years ago and had a great time there. They love to experience things through their children’s eyes.

So no help.

But I really think having a great time with a 6 year old is more about how you approach things and knowing when to take a rest. You can’t see the same things as you would with another adult. But then that is the whole point. I would go to which city you want to show her most.

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176 posts

You don't say exactly when you will be travelling.
I normally visit Venice before Easter, but last year went in August. The crowds were horrendous, so I think what it would be like for someone the height of a six year old - especially on the vaporetti.
My pick would be Paris, where you can find more space.
Except the ice cream would be better in Venice!

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15304 posts

Is Francie in to Madeline books and whatnot? (I know there are more than the books now!)

I think the exact timing would be important per Lin C's comments. The vaporettos are crowded enough for an adult and might be overwhelming for a smaller kiddo.

What a fun, fun trip for you all!

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351 posts

Two lovely choices! I am going to vote for Venice. You don't foresee another trip like this for you two in a long time, and Venice is the more precarious of the two options. It is magical to be in a city made up of islands and bridges. A gondola ride, if you time it right, could be another magical memory. Glassblowing on Murano is memorable. You can mitigate the crowd issue by going out earlier or later, avoiding St Mark's Square during cruise ship rush hours, and focusing on the back alleys and outer islands at mid-day. It really depends on how sturdy your daughter is, and I know you'll have a wonderful adventure either place.

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Paris…..Eiffel Tower, boat ride, gelato shops that make cones like flower petals, there are merry go rounds all over the city, crepes, all the fountains and there’s always Paris Disney.

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Another vote for Paris. I have been to both, but only to Paris with my kids when they were seven (about seven years ago), and they loved it. They loved going to Versailles with the boats, shopping on our street for dinner (bread here, cheese there, pastries here, and fruit there, etc.), walking up the stairs of the Eiffel Tower, and even getting there early and being in the front row for the Mona Lisa. Hopefully the tower at Notre Dame will be opened by the time of your trip to see the great views and the gargoyles and statues up there.