The young adult and I stand at the back of the tiny Café de Pieter in Maastricht in the Netherlands. We are wearing winter coats. All the coat hooks in the packed-out small space are taken, and it is far too crowded to try to hold a coat in one's arms. We are hot! But we are having a cool experience. The atmosphere is more crowded pub than café, and a Louisiana-style jazz band plays on a makeshift stage. Peter, our guide from the previous day, plays drums for the band. It’s a Christmas show! The young adult and I are all smiles as we sing along with the music.
The band launches into a jazzy version of the old African-American spiritual “Go Tell It on the Mountain.” “What a cool choice,” I think, and I start recording the band with my phone. The ever-enthusiastic young adult, standing behind me, joyfully joins the lead singer in bolting out the lyrics. On the second verse, the camera catches the lead singer pointing in its direction. The singer rotates his palm upward and starts repeatedly moving his index finger, trying to draw the young adult (again, standing behind me) onto the stage. The camera catches the singer smile widely and then turn his gaze in a different direction…
I’ve previously written of my travels with the young adult. He is in his early 20’s; I am in my early 50’s. We are unrelated, but had traveled to 10 countries prior to this trip, most recently to Japan in May. The young adult has experienced far more adversity in his life than any young person should experience. I’m really, really pulling for the kid to do well, but he has trouble catching a break. 2025? No exception.
Itinerary
Planning for this trip began with my discovery last December that my favorite band, Revolverheld, was having a 20-year anniversary tour in 2025, after which it was going to take a break. I envisioned a solo trip but bought two tickets to the Stuttgart performance just in case someone ended up joining me. The trip centered around the concert, Christmas markets, and history. The final itinerary was Aachen x 4 nights (with day trip to Bastogne for WWII history), Stuttgart x 2 nights, and Frankfurt x 1 night. About a month out from departure, it looked like the young adult might be available for the trip, but this was far from certain. I bought a refundable air ticket for him and made refundable reservations for rooms for him at my hotels. He ended up being able to go.
Lodging
Motel One Aachen, Motel One Stuttgart-Mitte, and Motel One Frankfurt-Römer. I kind of love Motel One. It provides a consistently great product. I know exactly what I’m going to get -- a nice ground floor common area themed to the city, a simple/clean room with subtle design flare, a solid German breakfast, a good location, and a reasonable price. I usually try to stay in RS-style places, but I had no desire to go searching for those for this trip. Interestingly, my early-booked rooms vs the young adult’s late-booked rooms were much cheaper in Aachen, a little more expensive in Stuttgart, and the same price in Frankfurt.
Flights
I bought my ticket far in advance with Delta frequent flyer miles and got a quite good deal for flying business class into Brussels and out of Frankfurt. The young adult’s refundable ticket was in coach. I didn’t want to give up my deal in business class if the young adult was unable to travel, and by the time we knew he was going, no adjacent seats were available in coach. So… I was in business class; he was in coach. Maybe I’m a bad person. Or maybe things are just meant to be. On the 10-hour return flight from Frankfurt to Atlanta, the young adult, who is interested in being a flight attendant, sat beside a retired flight attendant and picked his brain.