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Tips to Avoid In-Flight Conflicts . . .

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{Tips for avoiding on-board alterations-- Courtesy Jacqueline Whitmore, former flight attendant}

{- Don’t pack more than you can lift. The number one pet peeve of flight attendants is passengers who bring carry-on luggage too heavy for them to lift. Don’t expect the flight attendant to lift your bag into the overhead bin. If you pack it, you stack it. Research the rules of your particular airline to find out what luggage requirements they have.}

{- Check before you recline. Airline seats recline to allow passengers to sleep and relax, but it may cause discomfort for the person behind you. If you intend to recline your seat, do it gently or better yet, turn around and make sure you don’t inconvenience the person behind you. Raise your seat during mealtime so the person behind you can enjoy his or her meal.}

{- Be respectful of those around you. Airplane seating is tight and interaction with your seatmates is inevitable. Keep the volume of your headphones at an appropriate level and lower the light on your electronic devices so you don’t disturb or distract the person next to you. Many people are sensitive to strong scents including garlic and onions so be mindful of what you eat on the plane.}

{- Allow those in front of you to disembark first. Rather than grab your luggage and make a run for the door, follow protocol. If you need to make a connection or know you’ll be in a rush, try to arrange to be seated near the front of the plane.}

{- Hold your tongue. If you have a complaint about another passenger, don’t take matters into your own hands and don’t demand that the plane land at the nearest airport. Alert the flight attendant.}

{- Parents, be prepared. When babies cry uncontrollably in flight it’s probably because their ears hurt from the air pressure. It’s a good idea for parents to be prepared with a bottle or a pacifier or something to make their children swallow and relieve ear pressure. Also, parents should not wait until the plane takes off to change their baby’s diaper. Change your child’s diaper in the lavatory – not on the tray table.}

SOURCE: http://blogs.canoe.ca/travel/travel-tips/a-former-flight-attendants-tips-how-to-avoid-in-flight-conflicts

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"If you intend to recline your seat, do it gently or better yet, turn around and make sure you don’t inconvenience the person behind you."

Ok, I do agree with trying to recline gently. And I don't recline on short flights or during meals, but for long flights, where you might want to get some rest, you have the right to recline. If your reclining is an inconvenience for the person behind you, they probably were aware of that when they bought the ticket. They should have bought a ticket that fitted their physical situation.

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The subject of seat reclining was beat to death a few months ago in this post: https://community.ricksteves.com/travel-forum/general-europe/thoughts-recline-or-not. Lots of opinions both for and against. For myself, until the airlines either make seats that don't recline or make an announcement before the flight not to recline, then I will continue to recline. But I agree that it's polite to check with the person in the seat behind you before doing so and don't recline during meal service, that's only common courtesy.

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Yes, Nancy, it was. {It just happens that Lee is quoting part of the second point. :-D}

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If it were just reclining seats! My many trips have proved everything listed above exists in the plane cabin. Polite thoughtful travelers,. Travelers who understand and demand their rights (whatever those may be). Tired irritated babies. Broken seats which do not recline or only recline (yes it would not stay up). Me, who likes to stand as long as possible and stand often (against all flight rules which want you seated always and only). Thankful flyers, like me, who fly even with all the above. Hateful flyers who must fly for any number of reasons, but look for a fight and drink to increase or decrease the chances. Fearful flyers, with some justification who need talking to. Flyers who will not talk. There are every variety of folks now on the airborne people cattle cars. Sorry, I remember when flying was a unique, rare, exciting experience to be grateful for anytime. Yes, I'm old too. Yet it can be as just thrilling and fun if we take ourself somewhat less seriously. Or are supplied by knockout drugs by the airline before the plane takes off. Maybe I've found the real answer!