I really appreciate all the insight into the park, stay, fly. My husband is now leaning towards flying just to not deal with the worry of driving the pass, although it should be decent, particularly going over. (We are on the east side of the Cascade Mtns.)
G3rryCee, Yes, we have been looking into the flying option. Wow, you got a great deal! It's that cheap on the Wed before we need to go :(. Since we are needing to go over the Friday before Thanksgiving week, the prices are up somewhat for both the mileage and cash options (half the price on return) We may just bite the bullet and fly to save the hassle----will be more costly because we will then get a hotel near the airport for the return night. We return just before 7 PM so would miss that flight to our hometown. We would have to wait until 11:22 for the last flight over; I think I'll want to be sleeping then.
My husband wants to take the cheaper, earlier flight going in case something happens with flights and we need to drive. I don't fancy a full day at the airport (flight is 8:05 PM). We may compromise and pay the extra $60 for a little later. Our kids will be busy working, so we probably won't venture away from the airport.