Jojo, let’s not blame the victim. You give good advice about renting from AirBnB, but it is too late to help the OP.
Calling the OP a "victim" is a bit of a stretch without more information. She admits noticing the marks on the table surface after checking in, but not taking a photo or mentioning it to the owner. Surely in hindsight she realizes that was a mistake.
When I rent a car, I thoroughly examine the car, take pics of all damage (exterior and interior, like carpet stains or fabric tears), and I advise anyone to be sure to look at the roof and the undercarriage, and I present that evidence at the rental counter before driving away, ask for it to be noted in the system, on my paperwork, etc. Upon return, I point out the same issues. Well, I do the same "check for damage / missing amenities / missing or broken kitchen items" in any hotel room. I have rented/leased many houses in my life, and I always did a detailed "move in" inspection report (in my professional life, I was a real estate appraiser, so I came by this attention to detail naturally). When I check into a hotel room, the first thing I do is check the room, particularly A/C or heat, and I make sure the plumbing works - hot water, toilet flushes properly, etc. The beauty of a hotel is that I can go down to the front desk and speak to a an onsite manager about any damage or other problems in the room - good luck finding an actual person when your rent an AirBnB or other platform property.
I quit AirBnB years ago (pre pandemic), especially got tired of the "legality" issues that cropped up in many European cities like Paris in the last 8 or so years, the exorbitant extra fees especially on short term stays, and the misrepresentations of the property condition in their listing and photos, and the pandemic era uptick in shenanigans (like no onsite or physically available property rep for problems, lockouts) that I have read about but not experienced keeps me from using them or any other "platform property rental" outfit. By the way, I recently looked at renting an apartment for a month in Paris (not during the Olympics, for later in the year) on one of the other platform sites, but they charged 2 months rent as a security deposit, and there is no way I would agree to that.
If the advice I have given is "good" as you say, maybe others reading this thread will benefit, even if this advice is not particularly helpful to the OP. I wish the OP well, hope this gets resolved satisfactorily for her, but when you rent a car, or a property, and you have agreed to the terms of the rental by using their platform or rental agreement, protect yourself as much as possible with a thorough inspection, take photos, etc. At least when you rent a vehicle, you can buy "zero deductible" insurance or get similar coverage through a CC, but renting real estate is riskier for the renter when it comes to disputes about the condition of the property at the end of the stay.