This was our 8th trip to Italy, but the first time we have encountered this attempted scam, and it happened twice. A man approaches, holding up a coin, and asks if you can make change. Weird, because the coin (which is shown only briefly) looks like a 50 euro cent coin. Why would they want change for that? The first time, when we said no, he then asked for change for a 5-euro note. At that point it is obvious they are just trying to see where you keep your wallet, and my husband told him to go away.
The second time was disturbing, as we were among 20-25 others waiting for a ferry at the Intra (Verbania) ferry dock on Lago Maggiore. It was a mix of people, mostly speaking English or Italian, all dressed in casual vacation clothes. The scammer walked directly up to us, held out a coin, and asked for change. My husband told him to “go away” in fairly rude Italian, and he departed quickly, without trying anyone else.
Clearly we were targeted—-and I believe it was because we had stopped at a bank to use the ATM for a cash withdrawal on the way to the ferry, and we were followed from there. We went inside the bank to use the lobby ATM, as is our usual practice, so he did not see where we put the cash (and FWIW, it does not go into my husband’s wallet).
Just another reminder to exercise care when you use an ATM. I learned this lesson over 20 years ago when a travel companion lost her wallet to a pickpocket in the Zurich train station. She had withdrawn 500 CHF from an airport ATM and stowed the wallet in her zippered belt bag (worn in front). The guy must have followed us, and he managed to grab it in the crush of boarding a crowded train. She did not discover the loss until we were underway (and he had left the train).