Kathleen-
Last year, I spent 2 weeks in Scotland/Ireland to celebrate my 50th birthday! It was also a solo trip (was supposed to be a trip for both my boyfriend and I, who also has a September b'day, but he could not get the time off).
It was a bit scary (just at first!) but then it wound up being the most amazing 2 weeks of my life. I felt like I finally "grew up"! It was so amazing, that I am going back in a few days for another solo journey!
- I flew into Glasgow (much more flight options that EDI), and took train to Edinburgh (Queens St Station to Waverley). 3 nights at the Grassmarket hotel--- a really funky place in an amazing old building. I felt very safe and it was super comfortable. That was my 2nd trip to Scotland (however, the first was in 1992!) of course the Castle is a must, I also took a ton of walking tours-- I love old cemeteries, and Edinburgh is full of them! St Giles is gorgeous with amazing stained glass. Just walking up and down the Royal Mile (the lower end by Hollyrood is a tad less touristy) is great. (PS- Do not bother with Mary King's Close. I felt like I was in Disney's Haunted Mansion. Very cheesy) I also did a day excursion on Rabbie's called "Western Highlands" Doune, Kilchurn Castles, Loch Lomond, Inverrary, etc. was wonderful!
-I then took the train to Aberdeen. My grandmother was a Keith, and this is the region my family originated. It is known as the Granite City, and it is beautiful. I took the bus from the city center out to Dunnottar Castle, which is a MUST. Spent 2 nights at the Jay Guest House. George & Alice Jennings make you feel like family.
-From Aberdeen, I took the train to Inverness for 3 nights. Oak Villas B/B was lovely. Margo, the owner was a sweetheart, and her breakfast is one of the best! Very reasonable. I did a full day excursion on Jacobite Tours to Loch Ness (on my bucket list since I was about 7 years old) and it was the highlight of my trip. I also took a bus from Inverness city centre to Culloden Battlefield. My ancestor James Keith fought there and was banished to the colonies as an Indentured Servant. Not to be missed.
-As another 50ish female that travels alone, my best advise is to PACK LIGHT, do not be afraid to stray from your itinerary, and just be open to what might happen. I met so many friendly and interesting people! I HATE selfie sticks, and did not hesitate for a single second to ask someone to take my photo. No one ran off with my camera/phone. I ate mostly in pubs, and struck up conversations with those around me. A quick bite in Inverness (best fresh sea scallops!) turned into a several hour chat with a lovely couple at the bar.
Yes, there were moments when I felt lonely, missed my boyfriend and my dog, but 99.9% of the time I was exhilarated. This year's trip was again supposed to be the two of us to celebrate our birthdays ( his grandparents were from the Govan neighborhood of Glasgow) and once again he couldn't get the time off of work. I have to admit... I wasn't completely disappointed (I know, that's terrible!) I just fell in love with traveling alone.
This year I am again basing myself in Edinburgh's Grassmarket district (airbnb) taking the train to Stirling and Glasgow. After 5 nights, I am flying from EDI to Belfast for another adventure!
ENJOY!!!