Just to add my five cents worth - we travelled with our daughters from Ontario to BC when they were quite young - my youngest was about 5 (first time in a plane). When we were taking off we could not figure out why she was crying so much and holding her ears - we never heard of little ones have problems with their ear canals during take off and landing. It was awful - she was in so much pain and we were all very stressed and beyond ourselves. She eventually stopped but not for quite some time.
A wonderful air stewardess came by and provided us with two plastic drinking glasses and told us to put the glasses over her ears during the landing and voila - no pain - no discomfort . I could not believe it. From that time on we always requested the plastic glasses before take off and kept them for the land as well on future flights. Eventually we did take her to he doctors and the prescribed us a decongestant medicine (over the counter) to take a few hours before the flight. This also solved the problem and the glasses were not needed but the medicine did make her groggy and sleep most of the flight (which may not have been a bad thing either on those long flights) lol.
I would suggest asking for the glasses just in case and make a game out of it.