For the long haul trips I usually fly Lufthansa, United, Turkish Air. So I bought a bag that fits their limitations. It is 55x37x23 but I see the new version is expandable to 27. https://www.brics.it/eu/b-y-expandable-carry-on-trolley-4-3958.html?color=171-Mango It weighs 6.5 lbs.
So does it work? First I wanted a hard side. Couple of reasons. 1) protects the gifts better 2) protects my valuables better. 3) maintains its size and shape so it will always fit in the sizing box at the airport 4) slides in and out of the overhead with no effort and no snags on other things. 5) a simple rectangular design with no pockets or pouches is more efficient in maximizing the space inside. 6) clamshell design is easier to work out on one and two night stays without unpacking.
Next the weight. Heavier than I wanted, but the lightest i could find. I am an old fart and I like the spinner and pretty light for a hard sided spinner. Just easier in every regard. So, what about the weight. Well most of the airlines I fly have a 8kg limit on weight. When I pack more often than not I run out of space before I run out of weight allowance. So the bag being a bit heavier doesnt hurt. I hear some people saying they want a lighter bag so they can lift it easier. On all my flights every bag weighs 8kg or less as they all weigh the same when "legally" packed.
Has it held up? Yup, pretty well.
How do i get by on trips with 8kg? Some of the airlines have no weight limit or a reasonalbe weight limit on the personal item. On those flights I have a size legal personal item with all the heavy stuff in it. Lufthansa has a nutty small personal Item size requirement so I confess, I wear cargo pants to make things work.
I have i been checked? After boarding literally hundreds of European flights ... hard for even me to imagine, but I have had a blesed life and traveled a lot the last 30 years .... in literally hundreds of European flights, I have been checked three times. Failed one (the first time). But i have seen hundreds of people checked and fail. I think they walk past me because my stuff looks legal.