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Guys: Stop Worrying About What to Wear in Europe

I have wasted a genuinely embarrassing amount of time worrying about what to pack for Europe so I don't look like a "typical American tourist." I'm a late-middle-aged guy. I've consumed what must be a couple of hundred blogs, articles, and YouTube videos warning me away from t-shirts, white sneakers, shorts, and baseball caps.

Here is what I have to say about all of that: complete and utter bunk.

Last autumn was unseasonably hot in Lyon. According to everything I'd read, every single person I saw must have been an American tourist: Yankees baseball caps everywhere (there are more of them in Europe than in New York ), heavy-metal t-shirts (Metallica leading the pack), khakis or shorts, and sneakers — mostly white, mostly New Balance or Adidas, with a few Nikes scattered in for the contrarians.

On the train to Switzerland, I shared a car with a guy in a Brett Favre Green Bay Packers jersey, a Packers cap, light-wash Levis, and white New Balances. Speakerphone the whole trip. Loud and insistently obnoxious. Obvious American, right? Nope. French. The Packers fan was French.

Just back from Budapest, Vienna, and Prague. Same deal. Fewer band shirts, but that might be because it was just colder out. There were plenty of polos and sweaters to make up for it. More leather jackets, more nice shoes, more black-on-black-on-black — but the New Balances and the Yankees caps were still absolutely everywhere. Vienna was a touch dressier, but honestly, those guys were just going to work.

The magnificently stereotypical Americans did exist — bucket hats, flag t-shirts, cargo shorts, sandals with socks, the full kit. But they were a small minority. A loud, visually arresting, embarrassing few, but still a minority.

Yes, the scarf-and-man-bag thing is real, I'll give the blogs that. And Americans do wear more athleisure gear. But clothes are not really the tell anymore.

You know what actually gives Americans away? Posture. Gait. The way we seem to require slightly more square footage than everyone else just to stand still. Americans just seem bigger — not only because we're heavier (we are, alas), but because of the way we move and expand into the area around us. And Americans move through space like we own it. By the way, and I can't explain this, Europe has gotten remarkably tall lately — and the tall people are not us.

My personal favorite first-glance giveaway: haircuts. European guys have these short, sharp, almost architectural cuts, like they have a barber with a standing appointment and a strong sense of personal mission. Most are clean-shaven, although I haven't seen this many styled beards and mustaches since the Brooklyn lumberjack thing peaked here about ten years ago.

But the clothes? Let it go. From Glasgow to Budapest, Nantes to Bolzano, global fashion has already solved this problem for you. Every man on earth is buying his kit from the same websites. The playing field is level.

So, if you're a guy, choosing your European travel wardrobe is not complicated. Clean. Neat. Not embarrassing. Comfortable shoes. That's the entire brief.

Go enjoy Europe.

Posted by
995 posts

Hear! Hear!

But I was watching this show-- what was it called? It was on the same channel that carries Rick Steves (who is that guy who travels a lot and finds exuberance around every corner) Downtown Arbor maybe?

Anyway, this Mr Carson character had quite a bit to say on what is and what is not appropriate to wear at different times of the day and for different meals and I must say that if I were to keep up with him I think a carry-on bag would not be possible and that Rick Steves fellow seemed to think efficient packing adds flexibility to travel -- so put me in his camp!

Happy travels!

Posted by
5836 posts

YES. I haven't worried about what I wear in my travels since...., well I never have. I dress practical and comfortable. Practical requires cargo shorts or shorts with many pockets because my wife wants to carry a tiny purse but still needs room for the important stuff like lipstick, lip gloss and whatever else she stuffs in my pockets. I bring Under Armour T shirts because they're cool on a hot day or a layer underneath on a cool day. I bring Tommy Bahama collared shirts because they pack easily without requiring ironing when I get there. If one or two have a floral or flamingo print... that's because I like that style. Baseball caps...Blue Jays, Flames are on top of the pile.

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3392 posts

"Clean. Neat. Not embarrassing." ??

Pah! and Tish tosh, too.

I'm hoping for a summer version of a Homburg, like they wear in the early morning fishmarket auctions, with the smell to go along with it. That's just the topper. The main wardrobe will be as much clashing bright yellow and superman blue as I can mash into my carryon. And I hope this sash says 'slava ukraine' in whatever that strange type font is.

Posted by
86 posts

Thanks, you just reminded me to make an appointment with my barber (honestly!)

Posted by
16192 posts

Your observations are pretty much accurate Americans do gives themselves by the way they walk. I agree with the "gait" observation.

Those twenty something year old Americans wear also their college/university T-shirt , be it the Yale, or Kansas , or Northwestern etc, etc. I've seen that quite often. That is a dead give-away too. I wear white sneakers too, Nikes. They also do stand out. as does my wearing the waist belt in front of the pants.

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26332 posts

I am not saying anyone here is doing anything wrong. It is just that I am personally more comfortable by asking myself not what is the lowest standard tolerable in a culture, but instead, what I should do to show the level of respect that my hosts deserve. When I am in doubt, I aim high. The standard is never about what all the other tourists are doing; that’s immaterial. It is about the local cultural norm; exclusive of tourism. And yes, that norm is age dependent.

A norm is an accepted standard, model, or pattern of behavior that is
typical, expected, or considered "normal" within a specific group,
society, or context. It functions as a rule or average level of
performance/behavior that most people agree with, follow, or against
which others are evaluated.

This isn’t about clothing as much as it is a travel style. I hope it also helps preserve the culture that I am traveling to see and participate in. Or maybe it would if more agreed with me. What it is not about is not looking American. I would be proud to be seen as a polite and considerate American.