Hi all, First, I appreciate your help. I have been perusing the forum for a couple weeks to learn as much as possible. I am going to Italy in May/June with my Dad (71) and son (14). I am trying not to overbook us per your advance to other new travelers but darn it is hard!
My first question is about where to start our adventure. I have been planning to fly into Rome and end in Venice. It appears everyone recommends the other direction with starting in Venice. Are there other reasons besides Venice is better for jet lag? I am a little concern about the heat, for my dad, which is why I thought heading north would be better.
This trip is for my Dad. It is on his bucket list. His spirit is great, but he is slower and needs more down time than in the past. He also has stage 4 kidney failure, so this is probably his last big adventure. Our must dos are good food, Roman history, Vatican, and Venice. I want to make sure we slow down for a couple days at a small town or vineyard. None of us are really into art history but will do the baseline since we are here. My next thought I need feedback on is skipping Florence or just day tripping from there so we can spend more time in a smaller town. Is that a terrible idea? I have been looking at Lucca and Sienna. Bologna also seems like a great food haven. I have also considered an agritourism but am afraid the 14-year-old will get bored. (which is odd since he loves to read and lives on 10 acres in the Colorado mountains).
We are middle of the road travelers for our budget. Nothing fancy but not slumming it. I am budgeting $100-$150 a night for VRBOs or hotels. We might splurge a couple nights on the trip to really rest up. We will have 12 days on the ground after removing our flight days. I do think we have a little wiggle room here. I am hoping to use the train system this whole trip based on this forum's advice.
Thank you again for your advice and support.