My husband and I are heading to Italy this upcoming March–May (within 90 days) as a little hiatus before my husband starts his phd program in the fall. Although we're pretty well traveled, I've been "saving" Italy for a long trip where we can spend a lot of time. We got married in 2021 in Greece and have been dreaming of our next adventure. We aren't very "city" people, but will want to get a taste of at least Rome, Milan, Florence. BIG foodies, love to cook and soak in all we can. We both ride motorcycles and vespas but I'm prepared to rent a car (and can drive a manual) if needed. I've pinned dozens of locations and routes on my map but I'm having such a difficult time building our itinerary as it feels overwhelming but in the best way, can we go wrong? I would love any recommendations and/or links to airbnbs, hotels, or neighborhoods that you wish you could go back to.
Our loose idea for the itinerary is:
March: 30 days in a central location – moving slow, day trips, a time for rest and recovery, we're looking for a friendly area where we can integrate, I'm torn between Lucca and Puglia right now but am wondering if we should not be near the coast since it won't be quite warm enough yet? I would love recommendations on where to stay or even airbnbs or rentals you've experienced that can do a bit of a longer stay. Even neighborhoods that have stellar walkability would be great!
April: week-long stays in various cities or towns, what are the places you wished you could have stayed longer in? Places that deserve some extra time to linger? Milan, Florence, etc.
May: Get that start on the summer experience: Amalfi Coast, Tropea? etc.
Any advice is so welcome, especially on that first month/where we'll spend the longest length of time.