So a discussion I have had more then on e popped up in my head again as i close in on my travel date,
When do you want you contacts at home to send up the emergency/distress rockets while you are on a trip over seas?
My cousin had an ill mother when one of her trips was schedule and my Aunt (her. other) told her to go, and if the worse happened to not rush home and “ruin the trip.
On one trip (state side) the family got horrible news and we were informed, but told not yo come home as we could do nothing and would not even get to see said relative, as they explicitly didnt want company. We spent several days worried about said relative, we constantly jumped every time the cell phone rang and we were always worried about being out of cell phone coverage. Ultimately we had a miserable time and came home early anyway,
Another occasion years ago, we had to Get State police and National Park rangers to look for an Aunt and Uncle when we had an accidental death in the family,
So what/when do you want to be contacted?
I told my brother that if my house burns down dont bother calling. Jets meat me at the airport andctell me where you made reservations for me to sleep. 😁
My point was basically. if there is NOTHING i can do about the situation. then dont bother me. I know this sound self centered. But really if you are 10 hours away by airplane, plus time to arrange a flight, get to the airport, etc you are looking at realistically 15 hours and depending on the emergance and the airline and if you can get tickets on your original airline you could be talking tousands and thousand of dollars and that is not counting the cost of the trip.
So there is a point that you may be better off not knowing.
But frankly this is a very complicated issue and probably does not even have a right answer for anyone much less a right answer for everyone.
Dont get me wrong, if there is something I can do, contact me, If someone is dying and I can get home yo see them fine. Or even talk with them on the phone. But if the are unconscious and I cant get home in time…. I am not sure..
I had an someone i know pass away and they were cremated so fast that they were ashes before many of us knew they had died.
So i guess this is probably an impossible question, but…. It is something we all have to considered as we all could run into an emergency or other unexpected Issue.
So what do you think.