”For those of who travel outside big cities, how do you find something smaller, less touristed ? How do find that obscure (tom me) town in Bulgaria or Montenegro, let alone in France or Germany? Read the forum and research, yes, but what about what’s not here?”
Wanderlust48, this is a detailed process - but effective. After I’ve picked the country and the month I want to travel, I look up any local festivals in the country during that month. Next, since I travel by train, I pull up the diagram of the train routes. I open a couple of tabs on my laptop, and I am alternating between TripAdvisor “things to do” and Booking.com for possible small hotels or B&B’s in the center of the city for each city where a train stops. This sounds slow, but I can finish this whole process for a country in a day. I’m fine staying 1-2 nights in smaller towns, so I am mainly noting which towns have something to be considered on the initial list and also have decent lodging. Sometimes an extra special lodging option will drive a location stay - Pavia, as an example in September.
From that list, I draw a rough transportation map. Each city name is placed in the general area of where it would fall on a map of that region/country. I add an approximate number of days under the city name. Any special ones, plus festival locations get highlighted in a color. Then I look up each city on their train sites (don’t use Rome2rio!) to see how much time it takes between cities, i.e. 1 hr by train gets a segment between two cities with “1-T”. The map ends up looking a little like a web, connecting cities in different directions.
Since I do like to move locations often, I want train connections that are less than 2 hours, as the norm, so I’ve left off my bag & am out enjoying the next city by 11am. Usually the transportation map with some cities highlighted, plus time between locations will begin to visually form a likely route. I might look on the forum at this stage or post a question to the forum for input. My next step is making a calendar out of Post-Its with each day one Post-It, and the same city’s days all get the same color. I begin marking museums, for instance, with day closed, other activities, etc. At this point, I am finding more specifics on cities - cooking classes, bike tours, with key word searches. The Post-Its make it easy to shift the order of cities or slide everything a day if museums are closed.
Hope that helps!