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Unfulfilled Bucket List

My wife and I have been updating our bucket lists weekly ever since you-know-what ruined everyone’s travel plans. That list is so long now that it appears, we can easily itemize it into a one-line item…Everywhere. But as an exercise we each narrowed it down to our top 10. In no particular order, here are mine.

  1. Spring Training. This has been on my list longer than any other when as a boy I learned that baseball players on my beloved Montreal Expos actually got to spend a couple of months each Spring in Florida playing baseball. I made it to a Washington Nationals game in West Palm Beach a few years ago, but I want to spend a month in Florida following the Toronto Blue Jays. I want to experience the first crack of the bat and the first pop of a catcher’s mitt in early Spring.
  2. Visit every Major League Park; 14 down-16 to go. You may have guessed that I love baseball, but this one will be tough as my wife is not a fan. Any of you in MLB cities want to volunteer your time at a pub and then a game to talk and watch baseball with me?
  3. Historical tour of Canada. One regret when I was a teenager was being too self absorbed to care where my Grandpa came from and why. As a boy, he immigrated to Canada from the Liverpool, England region in about 1908. There was a Canadian author named Pierre Berton who wrote many books about the history of Canada and it wasn’t until I read his book, The Promised Land-Settling the West 1896-1914 did I understand the why. The stories my grandpa probably had. Fast Forward to 2016, and we visited the Fortress of Louisbourg in Nova Scotia which reignited my passion to learn more and follow Canada’s roots from coast to coast.
  4. Juneau Beach, Vimy Ridge in France. This is an extension of my historical tour of Canada and to visit places where Canada distinguished itself during the world wars. I’m sure I’ll need to head to the Netherlands as well, just haven’t researched that part yet.
  5. Haunted Castle. Just because. Hopefully, those ghosts aren’t just someone’s idea of good marketing. This would have been checked off the list in June when we had a room booked at Barcaldine Castle in Scotland.
  6. Calgary-Isle of Mull, Scotland. The place that my hometown is named after. There doesn’t appear to be much there, but it’s important to me. This also would have been checked off the list in June.
  7. Amalfi Coast-Kayak tour, sadly this likely won’t happen. While my wife indulges me and my intense pace during vacations, she draws the line when she’s required to chip in with the manual labour and paddle her own boat. I’ll have to settle for a villa with a large balcony overlooking the ocean.
  8. Giraffe Manor in Kenya along with an African safari. Who wouldn’t want a giraffe poking its head through the window while I’m eating breakfast?
  9. Month long stays in London and New York. I love big cities and I want to experience them like a local. Ever since I visited New York for the first time I’ve had this as a goal, but once I’d been to London, New York dropped to 2nd on the list. Los Angeles/San Diego are also on the list-but more as a place to go when it’s cold at home. In my mind, they don’t have the mystical qualities that the big 2 have.
  10. Disney World and Disneyland with Grandkids. First, I’ll need grandkids. But watching my own kids cavort with Mickey and Minnie was priceless and I want to experience that again.

Anyone else want to share their still unfulfilled bucket lists?

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Take a look at your date reference for your visit to Louisburg. You can't be that old and still not be retired.
Please add Ypres, Belgium WWI. Second battle of Ypres 1916. Shed a tear for me. This battle has stuck with me since I learned about it in grade school. It sits slightly higher than Vimy Ridge on my regard and was one of the earliest battles where we proved ourselves. Sadly, also noted for first use of mustard gas.

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Hi Allan. I have done a few things on your list. I went to Cleveland Indians spring training around 1996. I have slept in an Irish castle, but I didn't see any ghosts. And, I have told my kids that should they give me grandchildren, I will do baseball practice, dancing lessons, horseback riding and any number of things......BUT--the other grandparents will have to go to Disney. I am not going back!

I also agree with almost every where.
Here is my list in no particular order:

  1. Paris (was supposed to be there 2 weeks ago)
  2. Prague/Munich/Bavaria/Vienna: this trip is being planned. My son chose some of these destinations, but I am on board.
  3. Budapest
  4. Cicmany, Slovakia
  5. Bulgaria
  6. Amsterdam
  7. Croatia/Adriatic coast
  8. London
  9. South Italy/Matera/Sicily
  10. Barcelona/Madrid

In addition to the big cities listed, those trips would include some visits to any nearby small towns/ medieval villages.

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Take a look at your date reference for your visit to Louisburg. You
can't be that old and still not be retired.

Whoops, thanks Maria. Either I look awesome for my age or I meant 2016.

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I have tried to keep up the positivity but sometimes it is hard given where I work and what I do each day. It means I get reality bites whether I want them or not. I have not visited a formal bucket list in a long time, but I normally travel enough that I have an extended annual travel list.
2020/2021/2022
Dubai to Venice Cruise April X
All Inclusive well earned break June X
Buenos Aires July X
Saguenay Quebec for whales and camping August X
Try an AI break September X Maybe for birthday in November??
Mexico City 3 weeks January 2021 X
Costa Rica February2021 X
England March/April X
Rebooked Middle East Cruise April 2021??
3 month SEAsia retirement gift Jan 2022 (Gawd, I hope so)
Now, I will confess the only 2 items on that list back in March were the April2020 cruise and Mexico City for winter escape 2021. The rest have been considered for a region where C 19 appeared under control, added, and cancelled as numbers started to soar. I am not holding out for the rebooked cruise either.
If I can't do my retirement extended travel, I will really be bummed...but I will do something because then return to Canada isolation won't matter.
Depending on how that goes will dictate whether I rip up my long time bucket list and start from scratch.
I made sure I crossed off the true 'must see before I die' items at the start of my serious travels.

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I did what MariaF did:

I made sure I crossed off the true 'must see before I die' items at the start of my serious travels.

I do want to return to Sweden at least one more time, but I'm lucky I have already had an amazing trip to Sweden so I'm good, really. I would like to plop myself in a French speaking town for an extended period...but I'd be happy with Quebec City, where I can get in my car and drive home. Right now I am on a Notify Me list for BPV, but I'm not optimistic it will happen. Otherwise, I'll just see where the wind carries me at the time.

OH, I just remembered. I do have one item on my bucket list, not travel necessarily, I need to gallop a horse on a beautiful sandy beach. I guess I should start thinking about that one...

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Take LA off your list.

Unless it’s because you need to see Dodger Stadium.

Honestly there’s nothing else here.

Trust me Hollywood isn’t what you think it is. It’s a toilet.

I live here and until a week ago worked in the “biz.”

Now retired.

Much better costal towns than Santa Monica or Manhatten Beach. Newport Beach, Laguna Beach, Del Mar, to name a few.

San Diego is lovely.

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MariafF, we went to Ypres in 2000 and it totally changed by non-knowledge of WWI(although I confess we went there to see the Cat Parade). Then we were in a church graveyard in England that had residents who died in Ypres. Ypres is definitely worth a trip-it's peacefulness now really makes you realize how disruptive that war was.

Not in most important order, here is my list:
1. Rabbies tour of England-North Wales, Yorkshire Dales-scheduled for March 2020 and we all know how that went

  1. Colmar, Strasburg, more of Loire Valley

  2. Lucca, Ravenna, and other places in Italy; spend a week in Florence(4 visits so far and not enough)

  3. Unto These Hills drama in Cherokee, NC

  4. Nebraska, Iowa, North and South Dakota, Montana(already been to Yellowstone)-scheduled for July 2020 and we all know how that went

  5. Dauphin Island, AL for spring migration (had planned to go there Aug 2020 but was hurricaned and went to Hilton Head instead)
    EDITED: Yes, MariaF, I know that Aug 2020 is not a time of migration.

  6. Krakow, Budapest, Prague

  7. Vicksburg and Natchez, MS (I've never set foot in MS!)-scheduled the year they had such bad flooding, so couldn't go

  8. Costa Rica-to look for quetzels

  9. ?

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Cala, I had Quetzals on my mind for adding Costa Rica to my list then it became all the new birds there that I could get to from a timeshare on the Pacific Coast and than a week in Monte Verde area. I am not confident they have their numbers well enough under control, however. I hate to tell you, but August is a little late or a little early for Spring migration ;-)

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Allan: You're welcome to call/pm when you hit the Tampa/St Pete area for games... we still have the Jays (I think in Dunedin) spring training along with Phillies (Clearwater) and the "hated" Yankees (Tampa) ! And of course the Rays during season. Seems the biggest crowds are when the home team plays the Bos.Sox and the Yankees. It's a short drive to Orlando for "D-World". We also have Tarpon Springs just up the road - Closest thing to Greece I can find. Still hear Greek spoken on the streets. Although they insist on hiding potato salad under the tomatoes.

Our bucket list is mostly returns for more time and additional regions a bit off the map. France, Italy, Greece, Germany & Austria top the list. Would like to return to China and Japan - but at the end of the line for now.

Planned (now for '21 !!) new to us: Portugal (4 to 6 weeks) & Provence (4 weeks) and back to Greece with family. Maybe
Sicily in the Fall.

The one biggie left is Egypt for the pyramids. Had planned on for this Dec. but for some reason never paid the deposit last January... hmmm must have had a premonition.
I'd like to explore Turkey and maybe the Balkans.

And he thinks he wants to do Antarctica - although complains when temp drops below 45... so think that one will not happen :-}.

Last state for me to touch - Arkansas.. For some reason haven't even taken a highway through that state.

So I keep dreaming and researching and fine tuning. It's great to be retired!

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Quilter.... Watch the movie where did you go Bernadette
. Quilter and Allen when you see the Phillies have brunch at Lenny's restaurant, when you go to Tarpon Springs add a trip to Weeki Wachee State Park for the manatees and the mermaids
Cala, give me a call when you want to explore iowa and Nebraska
Wray, I would think you could find a horse and sufficient sand in Massachusetts
Maria F, hang in there. Girl.

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Hey Allan, love your list, it is so well thought out. Our bucket list is pretty loose. It includes
Japan, Shanghai, Hong Kong, Mexico City, Paris, London and smaller villages, Spain, and Portugal. There is no specific order, if and when we can get to them, we will be Happy. We also want to drive the north half of the US since we have done most of the south and the east coast. Thanks for the interesting threads you are always starting. PS a haunted castle is going on the list!

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Speaking of haunted castles, any castle worth their salt should be haunted lol! It certainly adds to the depth and colour of a place. A personal favourite is Ogrodzieniec Castle in southern Poland, which makes for a great off the beaten path daytrip from Krakow. I visited Ogrodzieniec in the summer of 2019.

According to local folklore, the Ogrodzieniec Castle is haunted by the "Black Dog of Ogrodzieniec", seen prowling the ruins at night, pulling a heavy chain. The dog is to be the soul of the Castellan of Kraków, Stanisław Warszycki, whose soul supposedly also haunts the ruins of the Dańków Castle, where it appears as a headless horseman.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ogrodzieniec_Castle

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Allan, I have lived in San Diego for the past 30+ years, and highly recommend the area. We have a great downtown ballpark in Petco Park. However, I would also tell you to skip LA. I've yet to find the charm in LA, except for the newer Getty Museum and concerts at the Hollywood Bowl.

You didn't mention San Francisco as a city for an extended stay, and a ballpark to visit. Have you been there?

Have you considered starting in SF, driving south down HWY 1, and visiting the charming coastal towns along the way: Carmel, Cambria, Morro Bay, San Luis Obispo, and the larger Santa Barbara? Then bypass LA and head towards San Diego, maybe stopping at San Clemente, Del Mar, and La Jolla on the way?

And oh- should I mention that I saw Mickie Mantle and Roger Maris play at Yankee Stadium when I was a kid?

Keep on dreaming!

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I have to agree with Pat, I've been down to San Diego many times, and it's honestly my favourite city in California. It feels surprisingly European to me, especially La Jolla and the Torrey Pines area, like something you would find in the Costa Brava. It was founded by us Spanish so that's sure to have added some flavour to the mix lol!

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This thread is reminding me of a tasteless joke which I can't quite rejigger for LA-haters (but I'll work on it).
Really, I thought I disliked Los Angeles as much as the next guy, but this thread is proving me a mild case:
there are several things worth doing in LA, beyond the Getty Museum and Getty Villa, good museums include the LACMA (including the new Broad), the JANM, the Hammer, the MOCA, the Fowler (at UCLA), the Skirball, and several other ethnic galleries/hangouts.
Cultural gems in the traffic coalmine include the Mercado Central and Little Tokyo, others. And Venice Beach and its adjacents can be a lot of fun so long as you're not sober.

The modern Cathedral is just as nifty in its own way as Gehry's Disney Hall, and they're close by each other (in fact those two and the mercado and city hall could fill a day in themselves, with dinner in little Tokyo)

That said, LA is indeed equal parts depressing and infuriating as you see the shallow and the consumption-obsessed racing to see who can destroy any hope of community or responsibility.

San Diego also has great museums, and luckily several are concentrated in Balboa Park.
The thing to keep in mind about San Diego, which isn't mentioned often enough, is that 1 in 6 or 1 in 7 residents is employed by the military (or in support of the military).

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I started a list for the first time a few days ago (inspired by various recent forum posts, I think the idea took hold when I read about someone who mentioned a 5 year plan!).

So my list began with must sees in Europe, interspersed with US and Canadian locations and then New Zealand and then there’s Asia and Africa and ... the list has grown so long in just a few days, it’s kind of overwhelming ... in a good way though. Good thing I’m stuck home for awhile so I can save up, lol.

PS another vote to skip LA

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My list is pretty widespread across the globe. Nothing really out of the ordinary, just places I would like to see.

  • Iceland, Northern Lights and ride their beautiful horses
  • New Zealand
  • Australia
  • Tibet and Llassa
  • Egypt and the Pyramids
  • Finish walking that darn Camino Frances I started 2 years ago, but start again in France.
  • Cross country road trip in the US, maybe in an RV.
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The top 2 on my bucket list are Australia/New Zealand for 6-8 weeks and and, like you, an African Safari. I imagine we will someday check those off - hopefully within the next 5-10 years.

Scotland has been on my bucket list forever and you know how that went - supposed to go in May - so that one will be checked off ASAP. I also want to return to the Amalfi Coast with my mom - her age makes this a bit more of a priority, so it's #2 on the list of things I know we can get done in the next few years. (covid willing).

Venice at Carnivale is also on that list, but my hubs has no interest in doing. I'll just have to pack my bags and take off.

Two things on my list that I DID do were Netherlands at tulip time (2017) and Provence at lavender time (2018). Both were as amazing as I imagined.

Other than that it's just places I want to return to - Switzerland tops that list. Maybe after Scotland and mom trip. I'd love to expand our trips to 4 weeks, spending a week in a couple bigger cities, but having a dog at home kinda puts a damper on things - it's hard enough leaving him alone (not alone, at boarding) for that long.

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So many things to respond to, but for now I'll stick to the LA comments. As a tourist, I guess when I say Los Angeles I mean the whole Southern California area which is our default vacation spot if we're looking for a quick, cheap flight from home. Last Fall we drove the PCH from San Francisco and ended in Laguna Beach. Our Los Angeles experience this time was 3 days in Glenside as a home base to see the Dodgers and the Peterson Car Museum-I've always wanted to see the Batmobile for the 1960's TV show. Trips back require a visit to the Academy Awards Museum (is it open yet?), and a football game at the Rose Bowl. I'll agree that Hollywood is a sewer but the beauty of being a tourist instead of a local is I can pick and choose where and when I go. Also been to San Diego many times and will never tire of it, same can be said about San Francisco, however I swear those hills in SF get steeper every year. Is that done on purpose to restrict the tourist numbers?? Maybe Venice should add some hills.

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One more comment on California; sometimes bucket list items don't go as planned. Here's an excerpt from a Trip report I wrote in May;

We’ve stayed at places with an ocean view before, but usually large resort hotels set back from the beach. Carla had always wanted to stay right on the beach. We finally did it last September in Laguna Beach and our hotel balcony practically cantilevered over the water when the tide came in. Our expectations came crashing down though that first night. Our room had a pretty weak air conditioner and so we had to keep the windows open, but the waves crashing against the rocks surrounding our hotel was like constant thunder all. night. long. You build yourself up for what is gong to finally be the much dreamed about perfect location and all we could do is act like the Grinch that stole Christmas and complain about the noise noise noise noise. In future, it’s a yes to ocean views but a no to seaside hotels surrounded by waves and rocks.

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I met this lovely lady from Kazakhstan on my flight to Istanbul a few weeks ago. I promised to visit so I have a new #1 on my bucket list. Have to brush up on my Russian first

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So......you have attended the Stanley Cup Finals where your team won?

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Tides in Bay of Fundy
Tour White House
Nazca Lines
Pyramids/Luxor
Mecca
Swim in all four oceans
Tour de France
Jerusalem
Terra Cotta Warriors
Ngorongoro Crater

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I guess my bucket list is much smaller in comparison but still something special to anticipate! I‘ve traveled to Europe numerous times, both with my husband & solo with the mindset that each trip might be the last, so I savor the moments, plan special music, cooking, outdoor or cultural activities and relive the trips through photographs - some made into beautiful canvas prints and fond memories. The only two items on my bucket list are to take each of our adult daughters separately with me for a 3-week trip to Europe - their choice of country.

Of course, I am ready to travel anytime! ; )

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Allan I love your bucket list items! Best wishes planning for their future. I think my bucket list is fairly small and I hope achievable in our unknown future.

We did manage to cross off a big one in January-February 2020. We spent a month in NZ and AU but I’m afraid that really whetted our appetite to return to these 2 countries for more.

Remaining on my short bucket list in no particular order:

Staying in a charming cottage in the U.K. Lake District for at least a month—well I guess it doesn’t have to be the Lake District but anywhere in more rural, charming, walkable U.K.

Portugal

Staying at an agriturismo in Italy with family members for a week or two.

A canal/narrow/long boat voyage for a week in the U.K. or France

Some more alpine time in any country with stunning peaks and vistas

These are some of the places I’ve been thinking about most often during these months at home.

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So......you have attended the Stanley Cup Finals where your team won?

No. I didn't even see it on TV when the Flames won it in 1989. I was in Anaheim on my Honeymoon for the final game. Back then, hockey was even less thought of in SoCal than now. We walked from bar to bar looking for a TV showing the game with no luck. I didn't know the result until the next morning when I ran out to buy a newspaper and found a teeny tiny note about it buried deep in the sports section.
I actually never saw the game until 2004(?) during a players strike and classic games from the past were being broadcast instead.

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Please add Ypres, Belgium WWI. Second battle of Ypres 1916.

Thanks for the tip Maria. Bruges is on my wife's list. Maybe we can rent a car and make a day trip or I wonder if I can find a tour that combines Ypres and Vimy??

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I forgot to mention, 2 friends if mine stayed at Giraffe Manor 2 years ago for 2 nights. They said it was amazing and worth every penny. And a lotta pennies it was.

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I have a small but fairly likely do-able list of places I need to visit:

Romania--my cancelled May trip would have included Cluj, Brasov, Sighisoara, Sibiu and Bucharest...Maramures would be nice if I had the time and energy to get up that far north

Barcelona to see Sagrada Familia

Bruges, with a day trip to explore the WWI trenches

Moscow & St Petersburg

Return to Edinburgh, Scotland and then explore more towns

I have wanted to spend time in a beach cottage on Cape Cod for many, many years--that seems most do-able given the current state of travel

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Christa, Cape May in New Jersey is a welcome alternative to Cap Cod.

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fresh salmon - as someone who lives in the exact spot where the World's Highest Tides come to a crest...("Among the places with the highest tidal ranges, the Bay of Fundy is at the top.") let me recommend a few things for you.

Do you like getting wet and most likely getting sand in your shorts and other places? Look into Tidal Bore rafting.

If you can time your trip with a full/new moon, it'll be slightly more impressive (as someone who lives here I'm obligated to say it can be quite 'bore'ing (pun intended)) to watch.

Visit Burntcoat Head Park during low tide and walk on the ocean floor. There is even a company that does (still do?) 'dine on the ocean floor'. It is cha-ching, and I'm not sure what'll be happening in the future, but here's the info. https://www.flyingaproncookery.com/dining-on-the-ocean-floor/

Lastly - if you do bicycles, you can look into renting a bike (we have a few spots in town that rent them for a few hours or a few days) and bike along the Old Barns trail - you could time it with the tide coming in. Lots of benches and picnic tables. After decades I got a bike this year and have loved biking this basically flat, groomed trail along the Bay. One entrance is right along where the trail starts at the bay and is about 4-ish km. I like starting the trail in town and doing the 20km round trip.

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We have completed quite a lot of our bucket list, having visited (by country):
1. 3/4 of the countries in Europe, with most of the remaining ones in the Balkans or former SU. Special places, Rome, Florence, Venice, Athens, Naples area, Greek Islands, UK, and much more. Loved cruising Norway up to the North Cape.
2. Egypt
3. Israel
4. Turkey, loved Istanbul and Ephesus.
5. Canadian Rockies, Vancouver and Alaska (cruise and visit to Denali).
6. Mexico City
7. Argentina, Chile and cruise around the horn of South America.
8. Peru, Lima, Cuzco, sacred valley and Machu Picchu.
9. Going through the Panama Canal.
10. Australia and NZ.
11. China
12 Japan
13. Singapore and Malaysia.
14. India
15. In the USA, the Grand Canyon, and 80% of the states.
16. Hawaii and Fiji
17, Russia, including a river cruise.

Still to come:
1. Several national parks in the USA, especially Yellowstone.
2. Safari in Kenya and Tanzania, scheduled for July 2021.
3. A more intensive visit to Ireland.
4. A more intensive viist to England and Scotland.
5. The Basque country of northern Spain and southern France as well as Bordeaux in France.
6. The Umbrian region of Italy.
7. River cruise from Budapest to Romania.
8. Return to Israel with a trip to Jordan.
9. Return to Egypt.
10. Galapagos Islands (Equador)
11. Brazil

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Nicole - The Dining on the Ocean Floor experience looks awesome - just added to my bucket list!

1st time places on my bucket list:
-Greece (this year's cancelled trip)
-Mother/Daughter Glamping trip-Baja
-Mother/Daughter California road trip (did this almost 40 years ago with my best friend - would love to share with my daughters)
-Galapagos
-Turkey
-Japan
-Africa
-New Zealand
-France - been to Paris twice, but would like to see a lot more of the country

A whole host of places to return to including, but not limited to: Croatia, Amsterdam, Spain, Ireland

I turn 60 this year, and if all goes well plan on retiring at the end of 2021. I hope for all of us that we will be back on the road again by then fulfilling out travel dreams!

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I forgot to mention, 2 friends if mine stayed at Giraffe Manor 2 years
ago for 2 nights. They said it was amazing and worth every penny. And
a lotta pennies it was.

Barbara, whenever I see prices like at Giraffe Manor I always remember my family trips to the Disney Parks where a family of 4 could easily exceed $500/day. Now it's ME time.....as long as my wife says that's OK....

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My husband says the same thing - we are not getting any younger, and, that rainy day we saved for is here - but I still hesitate. I sincerely hope you make it there and enjoy every minute. I hope everyone who responded gets to fulfill even a part of their bucket lists. I know after this is over, most of us will be off and flying.

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I have some places where, if I didn't see them before I died, I would feel cheated.

  1. London (I've been twice now, so I'm good!)
  2. Paris, D Day Beaches, and painted caves in the Dordogne (planning this trip for Spring 2022)
  3. Rome and Pompeii
  4. Auschwitz
  5. Athens
  6. De Smet South Dakota (I'm a big Laura Ingalls Wilder fan. Trip planned for this for Spring 2021, keeping fingers crossed)

Other places I'd like to see but aren't mandatory:
Iceland
Greenland
New York City
Other places in England, Scotland, and Ireland
Boston

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Joan - I hope you make it some year! There's actually a lot included with that price.

And as for splurging - I spent so many years pinching pennies so we could travel, and finding nice but budget accoms, or couchsurfing for free - I have a hard time getting out of that headspace. If I go over $100 Cdn for an airbnb I cringe. But I think I'm coming around - I just have to tell myself - we can afford it. We don't have anyone to leave it to, so we might as well enjoy it - lol.

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I've been enjoying reading this thread, and it reminds me that I have been able to put some trips from my list into my bucket. For all my life, number one was Egypt...the pyramids, Abu Simbel, Luxor, a Nile cruise, etc. We did that in Feb. 2019 and it was all I could wish for! Other favorites from my bucket list were equally happiness-filled (Kenya, Turkey, Chile, Easter Island, Tierra del Fuego, China, and lots of European countries). One wished-for trip was to be taken next May-June to France (Provence and the Dordogne). We had planned to treat our children, their spouses and our grandchildren to a week in the Dordogne. I had chosen a great house to rent and planned (roughly) our activities and excursions. This was our 50th wedding anniversary gift to ourselves, preceded by a week for just us two in Provence. I hope we can do it in 2021!
Other unfulfilled trips on my list, after the France trip are, in no particular order: New Zealand, Costa Rica, Sicily/Malta, Petra in Jordan, Scotland, the Basque country, Estonia/Latvia/Lithuania, and returns to Austria, Italy, Germany, England and France. At almost 77, I have to hope for lots of years of decent health to fill up my bucket, but if I never travel again, I have been so much more blessed than most people I know, to have been able to see so much of the world. We have passed on a love of travel to our kids, and they, in turn, have planted the seed in my 6 and 9 year old grandkids.
I counted up 28 countries I have visited, plus 26 U.S. states and 3 of the Great Lakes. I have been to 29 of the 62 big National Parks. Oh, and 2 of the 3 oldest baseball parks in the U.S. (Boston and L.A.). Wrigley Field is next!
You have all given me inspiration for my wish list. Thank you! And I hope your buckets all get filled up! Mine is sure filled with wonderful memories.

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Judy, Wrigley is my favourite stadium so far. We were in the Dordogne for a couple of days during an RS tour last year and it was my favourite region of the tour. The Lascaux caves were a top 5 bucket list item and it was all I had hoped for. While visiting I added an overnight stay in Beynac to my list; it came close to making my top 10 list.

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Great thread Allan! Not sure if I have a bucket list outside of Alaska and the upper Midwest to the northwest to the USA. If we plan it right we could visit my wife's cousin in Vancouver. And, if I really behave I might convince her to road trip through the towns of "Running Back to Sakatoon"! If you are interested in Canadian sites in France then check out the town of Dieppe. We visited last September because my wife had 5 great uncles that took part in Operation Jubilee. 4 were captured and 1 was KIA and is buried in the Dieppe Canadian War Cemetery outside of town. As for Disney World or Disneyland with the grand kids? That is a must do. I have long complained to my wife of the cost of going to DW/DL versus going to Europe. We took our grand kids there last year for my oldest granddaughters birthday. We stayed at a DW property for the week and it was worth it. They made her feel like a princess with special attention given since it was her birthday.
Wherever I may or may not go in the future, I am Thankful that I have been blessed to see many places others have only dreamed about going.
Safe travels everyone!

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@Allan, you mention a top 10 list, might that be the next thread topic? Would be fun to see/hear about everyone’s top 10.

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Joann, I see you have a California road trip on your list. Good for you. I have lived in SoCal since 1958, but only began travelling around this great state since my honeymoon in 1971. In our 1968 VW bug we took a $2.00 tube tent, a clothesline, 2 WWII sleeping bags, and a double sterno and spent just over one week visiting a good part of California (although not even half of it), and dining on Franco American spaghetti and Dinty Moore beef stew. I fell in love with it's mountains, desert, coastline and golden foothills of wild grasses and California Live Oaks. We try to head off on a road trip once a year, and I do an annual girls' trip with an old friend. Here in a state I love you can swim in the ocean in the morning, picnic in the mountains, and sleep under the stars in the desert that same night. I have been to every county at least twice. (Did you know there are 10 covered bridges in California, 6 of which are historic? We can boast of 9 national parks, plus 24 natl. monuments and historic sites.) We have rafted on the South Fork of the American River and the Kern River, tasted wine in Temecula, Fresno, El Dorado, and Napa/Sonoma/Mendocino counties. In the far northern part we have explored lava tubes, sulfur springs (Lassen N.P.), and panned for gold. I've been to all but one of the missions, seen whales and dolphins off the coast, and sailed to the Channel Islands. I don't ski or shred, but I have played in the snow at Mammoth and Big Bear, circled Lake Tahoe, and I still gape, after many years, at the magnificent Coastal Redwoods and Sierra Sequoias. Oh! And the Bristlecone Pines! Oldest trees in the world!
Golly, I do love California! And there are some great hidden gems in Los Angeles and environs also. It isn't all Hollywood Blvd. and Venice Beach. We have several beautiful botanical gardens, more museums than just LACMA and the Getty, plus neighborhoods and enclaves from all over the world (e.g. Chinatown, Little Tokyo, Little Ethiopa, Cambodia Town, Little Saigon, to name just a few). And oddball museums exist all over the state. We search them out, along with visiting the wildlife and wetlands preserves and flyways up and down California. If you can ever watch a Huell Howser television show, you will see what I mean. (He passed away a few years ago, but his video paeans to California are still shown on two of our public tv stations.) Did I mention I can get, here in Long Beach, with my plain vanilla antenna, 14 public stations? If I miss Masterpiece on one, I can pick it up another night on a different channel, so don't discount the L.A. area. I hope you get to do a road trip in California, but you had better plan on at least a month (preferably two) to enjoy all we have to offer. When I haven't been on a Cal road trip in a while, I get antsy to revisit that inn on the coast, or taste the wine at a small winery in Jackson, or just stare at the coastline near Mendocino and Fort Bragg, or sit quietly among the redwoods. There is something for everyone here. Come and relish it!

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And, if I really behave I might convince her to road trip through the
towns of "Running Back to Saskatoon"!

John, I just checked out the lyrics to the song and I've been to or through all the towns mentioned except Terrace (OK, Hong Kong as well but that would be a tough drive from the rest of the towns). You'll be seeing a lot of flat prairie scenery and a lot of cows and wheat fields.

Now I've got the song running through my head. I'm a bit young to have been a fan of The Guess Who but my oldest brother was a huge fan.

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I'm really enjoying reading all the replies to this thread. Thank you Allan, for this thread topic & your other recent ones!

Nicole: I'm very intrigued by the Dining on the Ocean Floor! I've recently found out that my biological father was born in Nova Scotia, before immigrating to the US in his teens. Nova Scotia is now on my bucket list - would love to see the town he grew up in & visit my grandfather's grave. I've added the Dining on the Ocean Floor as another bucket list item for that trip! A splurge worth saving up for!

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TinaC - I'm wondering if I can get a kickback...lol. :) I'd heard about it of course but never really looked into it - it does look like a fun day!

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The Guess Who? Forget it. Canada's Holy Trinity of entertainment exports....Neil Young, 4/5 of The Band and Joni Mitchell. Ok, you can add Larry Walker, too.

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Judy - I knew California has a lot to offer, but I didn't realize just how much! I started a draft itinerary during this down time and researching only about 1/3 of the state so far, already need at least 10 days just for that area! It will be tough to narrow it down. Maybe we can take annual trips if they still want to hang with Mom. I hope we will be able to go in May or June 2021 after they graduate, but I don't feel overly optimistic.

It's really tough for me to get more than 2 weeks at a time and I won't be retiring until the end of 2021. By then the girls should be (hopefully) employed full time and will be dealing with limited PTO. I really enjoyed my trip those many years ago, and I think my daughters would fall in love with it too. I'm still keeping my fingers crossed for Summer 2021!

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Gee no one mentioned Gordon Lightfoot, Diana Krall or Leonard Cohen....three of the best Canadian imports.

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Haunted castle definitely sounds fun. Some years ago I had a few nights booked at Dalhousie Castle in Scotland but the trip had to be canceled because of a work crisis. When I next made it to Scotland, ended up skipping the castle stay for days elsewhere but would love to make up for that missed stay one day.

Otherwise, some big bucket list items -

  • An extended train trip. A week or so on a long train journey, sleeper cars, dining cars, all that fun stuff. Europe, Canada, wherever... I’ll make the most of it regardless of where it gets done, and the train itself would be the destination.
  • The Galapagos. I lived in Ecuador as a teenager and my family visited back then, but I’d love to travel there again.
  • A road trip around Scotland, possibly even in a camper van. Not necessarily tied to the North Coast 500, but around as much of Scotland as I could fit in as long as I’m able to make it there.
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1885BD, I have a friend who was given a cross Canada train ticket for his birthday. He described it as a dryland cruise. The experience was the train with brief stops in places he would never have gone otherwise.

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I never had a bucket list but would like to have seen more of France, particularly Dordogne and some of the chateaux and gardens. Maybe one day. Otherwise, back to the same old haunts. Stuck with certain parts of central/western Europe and parts of North America, by choice. Can't afford to waste money on places I may possibly like.

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Disney world with my (future) grandkids is on my list, too! Hopefully that’s 15+ years or so away, as my oldest kid is 17!

Machu Picchu, Peru. Gotta go before I get too old and out of shape! The elevation intimidates me already.

Seeing the Northern Lights.

Alaska. Maybe I can see the Northern Lights there and get a two-for-one.

Greece

Istanbul and hot air balloon ride in Cappadocia

A mountain coaster and/or paragliding in Switzerland. We did both in Austria and they were awesome.

Train through the Canadian Rockies.

Stay at the Chateau Lake Louise.

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Train through the Canadian Rockies.

Stay at the Chateau Lake Louise.

Two good choices. You can take the train from Vancouver to Banff or Jasper. Whichever you choose, I recommend you then drive between Lake Louise and Jasper. For me it is one of the most scenic drives in the world.