I've told my biggie here before, but here goes:
I moved to Hungary in 1993 to teach English. I was posted to a “smaller” town — still more than 100,000 people and way bigger than my Oklahoma hometown! The beautiful city of Kecskemét.
I went on a program that had sent teachers all over the country, and we had all flown together on the same JFK-Budapest flight. During that time, we made arrangements to meet up our first full weekend in Budapest.
So I somehow research the train times and found my target train to leave Kecskemét for Budapest on a Saturday morning. Say the train was to depart at 11:27 am from K to Bp on platform 1.
Of course I was at the train station early, so I went out to the platforms to await my train. It was maybe 11:10 or 11:15. There was a train sitting there on platform 1.
Like a dummy, I didn't know that the Budapest trains originated in Szeged, and only stopped in Kecskemét to drop off and pick up passengers (I guess I thought Kecskemét was the center of the world and trains would just originate there). So I figured this was my train, which would leave in a while, so I went ahead and got on it.
So the train departed at say 11:20. I thought it was odd that trains wouldn't follow the published schedule, but what did I know?!
This, of course, was not the Budapest-bound train, but some local milk run train. I still don't remember how, I must have asked somebody, and a fellow passenger helped me figure out I wasn’t on the right train.
Of course now I had no idea how I was actually going to get to Budapest!
At the next stop that was common both to the local train I was on, and the next Budapest-bound train, this man helping me got off the train with me and took me to the ticket hall to buy a ticket for the next Budapest train. In other words, he completely diverted himself from his planned travel to help me out. I will never forget that kindness.
So the next time the train came, I waited until the actual time for the train before getting on any train sitting around, and eventually learned my way around the Hungarian rail system and the menetrend (timetable), and that weekend I had a wonderful weekend of discovery in Budapest, a city that has remained dear to my heart in the 26 ensuing years. I spent many many a weekend taking the train between Kecskemét and Budapest and the Nyugati station, designed by Mr Eiffel's company.
Recently on Arte (a joint French-German cultural TV channel), they had a documentary on grand train stations, and sure enough Nyugati in Budapest was one they featured. The last time I was in Budapest and took the train to go see Kecskemét, I had a wonderful sentiment of being “bathed” in the Hungarian language from all the chatter around me, and settled in to my seat with a big smile on my face. Right now I am so opposed to the Hungarian government that i don't feel like I can go spent my tourist euros there, which is a bit heartbreaking. I hope they will find their way again.