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Packable Gift for an Angel

I am re-posting my question here in the general forum, in order to reach the broader community. Even though my question concerns a gift for someone in Croatia, I'm sure you experienced travelers may have lots of good ideas. Please share. Thanks!

I need your advice on a gift to give a virtual stranger, who basically has changed my life. A little background: she is the owner of a Dubrovnik apartment which I will be renting. In an email to her I happened to mention that I am excited to make my first trip to Croatia because my mother's family is Croatian. She began to ask a few questions - family name and town. The only thing I could tell her about my grandparents is their family name. I didn't even know the name of their town; I had been told that the village was somewhere near Split.

This angel-of-a-woman not only tracked down my family's village (Stasevica ), but also the parish priest, who was able to find my grandfather's name in the church's baptismal records! As if that weren't enough, this week she also found and spoke with a man who told her that his grandfather is the same as mine! (His grandfather remarried, so he has a different grandmother.) We are cousins! There are other relatives who still live in the area. My angel will meet me in Stasevica to act as translator for me.

Before I ask what gift to give my angel, I should mention that for my Croatian cousins, I plan to create a family photo album, labeled with everyone's names/relationships. We did that when we visited my Italian cousins and they LOVED it. I also realize that my Croatian relatives may want to wine and dine me. In case they do, I have built in some (a lot) of wiggle room in my schedule for that day.

So this question is what to give my angel? I will be in Europe for three weeks before I meet her, carrying ONLY a backpack - so there is part of my problem - size/weight. My gift should be easily packable and able to take the wear and tear of being squished during packing and unpacking. I learned she has a 15-year-old son and 9-year old daughter and I have their gifts covered - an Atlanta Braves ball-cap for him and some girl-friendly flavored lip-gloss or the like for her. Originally, I had thought to bring her something iconic from Atlanta – like Georgia pecans or something from CNN Headquarters, but that level of gift now seems totally inadequate.

Help! Do any of you experienced travelers have advice on this? Please share if you do. I would be so appreciative.

Posted by
2261 posts

I think you should meet her first. Bring a nice card with a letter letting her know how much you appreciate what she's done and what it means to you. Then, when you know her a bit it will be a much easier, more natural thing. Certainly you could plan to take her and her family (?) out to her favorite restaurant.

You may want to delete your other post so all answers are in one thread.

Posted by
11507 posts

My impulse would be to treat her to a nice meal out..

Posted by
2638 posts

I would go for taking her and the family out for a meal,but how about a book about the area you live in know and of course being from Atlanta you go to bring salt water taffy.
BTW she is an angel, just shows there are a lot of nice people out there.

Posted by
985 posts

Oh, how fortunate that you came across this woman! I would purchase and bring something very nice that is especially for her - a beautiful scarf, a light wrap, an artistic handbag or tote. Any of these should pack easily and not be too heavy to be included in your bag. You could still take her to dinner, but I personally would have something that is just for her.

Posted by
1914 posts

Just a thought, but what about a Willow Tree small figurine of an angel with a card explaining that she is your angel for doing all this for you.

Posted by
3391 posts

What a fantastic person...restores your faith in humanity!

Posted by
3240 posts

What about collapsable mixing and/or storage bowls? When collapsed, they don't take up much room and they are practically weightless.

You sound like a wonderful friend!

Posted by
2393 posts

I would look for something uniquely Georgia. I've seen some pretty peach pendants.

Posted by
132 posts

I would bring her a photo of your family and then after you have met her and her family, take another photo of all of you, have it printed there somehow and then give her that as well. You could bring a small frame from Georgia or find one on your travels.