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Open Ended Question

Okay - so after a very successful 3-week trip to France with the family (spouse, 9 and 5 year olds) in 2015, I've started thinking about what is next (2017 or 2018). I put together a number of ideas for France, Italy, Slovenia and a combination of those and my wife has wondered along the lines of "we know a lot about Europe and the US and I'm pretty sure I know how a trip would be for all of these places, but if we expand the search, what would be some of the best choices and what do people with kids who travel typically do?"

So where have you gone with kids? What worked, what was challenging but okay and what would say did not work out so well? I would love to hear what your experiences were like.

Thanks!

Matt

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I lived in Saudi Arabia and Germany for a total of 9 years from 1981 until 1991. While in Arabia, my children were age 11 and 5 when we first arrived (we traveled a lot from Saudi Arabia). Later, I was in Germany with my Wife and step-children, starting ages 15 and 13. Europe was not as overrun with tourists as it is today. The line entering St. Marks in Venice was short as well as into the Sistine Chapel. When my Son was 5-6 years old, I wound up carrying him on my shoulders quite a bit, since he would get tired later in the day. We took the kids to all the places that people go when they visit Europe. Museums were a special task, since, I remember after about an hour at the Lourve, my Son, then 7 was ready to go. I will say this, at 7 he was still in awe of the Sistine Chapel and wanted me to explain to him all the details on the paintings. Still, I can say that today, he still doesn't remember a lot of the places we visited when he was 10 years old or younger. However, teens were different. Teens will absorb a lot of the history, architecture and culture. Be ready to explain it to them. I used Michelin guides in those days. I will say that it never hurts to plan to stop in places where the kids might have more of an interest. Going to see natural wonders like the Zugspitz Mountain top is an example, or the beach in France. A Seine river ride in Paris or going to the top of the Eiffel Tower was a winner. My Son, at 10 was awed by all the Egyptian tombs and temples, but really impressed by the Aswan Dam. All my kids (including step kids) love to travel and I think taking them on trips had something to do with that.

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Whoa - it is open ended. There are some web site for traveling with children and guide books. Start doing your research. Our solution with our boys in that age range and older was cruises. Solved a lot of problems and made life easier for the parents. And as they got older, they could experience some independent travel.

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Costa Rica. We (wife, boys aged 13 and 9) flew into and out of Liberia and spent some time in Guanacaste region exploring the coastal towns and beaches and then went inland to the Arenal volcano area. There is a lot to do if you like nature.

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I don't have kids, but have been with friends and family traveling with kids. I think your question has more to do with characteristics and personality traits of the kids and their parents than any particular "place" in the world. Kids who are easy going, flexible, and have been broadly exposed to travel in their young lives seem to do just great and carry themselves very maturely no matter where they are (and they tend to adjust rather well to new places). I've been surprised at times at the variation between kids who can readjust and handle new environments, and those who fly off the handle during even minor travel (you can more or less predict this ahead of time). You can find almost infinite outcomes along a continuum, but lots of travel practice and inherent demeanor seems to make the most difference in affecting a positive outcome (from my observations as a third-party observer). If I did have kids, I'd really hope they were like my one cousin's - very mellow, very well-behaved, lived in multiple countries and speak multiple languages, traveled a lot with parents at a very young age, and would have no problem taking them anywhere because they are naturally curious and enjoy exploring new places.

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A great place for getting ideas about traveling with kids is to go to the PBS website or YouTube and watch the episodes of Traveling with Kids. Their shows are so good and will give you some great ideas.

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You don't mention the gender of your kids. A big hit with our grand daughters was getting their hair cut and styled in Paris. They were older, 10 and 12 at the time.

A big hit with my big kid husband was driving a go-kart track near Aix-en-Provence. I've seen kids on those tracks, but they likely have size or age restrictions.

Much to my surprise, our 5 year old grand daughter did great on the Walkabout Best of Tuscany bus tour out of Florence, and it was about 12 hours total.

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Thanks! Yes, I'm not looking for advise on what I should do, more of a compilation of what others have done. I intentionally did not put in details because I just want to hear other people's experiences. What has been written so far is great, thanks!

-Matt

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Geo - where in Saudi did you live? I've done a couple of trips around the country for work. Would be fascinating to know what it was like there in the 80s. My travel was in 2009-2011 - likely quite a different place!

-Matt

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Not sure exactly how much you've traveled in the US, but we were in Montana with kids. Dad and son went fishing, daughter and I went river rafting. We also spent another vacation at a location in the Bob Marshall Wilderness. Family ranch but great cabins, and we got out on horseback everyday. Saw black bears. Community dinners. I think that was one of her highlights of growing up.

Stretch their limits of what they think they want to do. Do they surf, horseback ride, dive, ski, fish (or have they tried any of those)?

Mother Duck

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Mother Duck - this sounds kind of a amazing. I've been through Montana years ago but have never heard of this. I will learn more and get back to you if I have questions.

-Matt