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Memorable day

The past couple of months I posted a couple of times in the Trip Reports section about memorable travel moments that come with a story that I still love to tell anyone who will listen.

An example:

May 30, 1989, Dodger Stadium, Los Angeles, California. Never, ever leave early.

Our honeymoon. I’d only been to one Major League Baseball game before a my beloved Montreal Expos were in town. I had family living in Anaheim and my cousin’s husband-who is not a sports fan was volunteered to take me to the game. He complained the whole way there and the during the entire game; he was a miserable person, but I put up with him because I was going to see the Expos. End of the 8th with the Expos down 4-1 he said we were leaving to beat traffic. I wasn’t happy, but what could I do? By the time we got to our car the Expos were winning 5-4. My cousin divorced the guy a couple of months later and I’d like to think it was because he made me miss the comeback. But to this day, when someone suggests we should leave a game, they get this story.

Anyone else want to share a story that in your mind, never gets old?

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Summer 2015 Rwanda.

There is a lot of back story here. To summarize quickly, my husband and I had sponsored a young student through Africa New Life Ministries in Rwanda. When my husband died suddenly in 2013, the memorial funds given in his memory were sent to help finish building the high school that our sponsored student would attend. Almost 2 years later, I was privileged to go to Rwanda as part of a teacher training group with Africa New Life. I had many special moments, but the one that truly stands out was arriving outside the completed high school and watching students changing classes. The worst thing I had ever experienced ( the death of my husband) had still managed to have some good come from it. I wept with a mixture of both grief and joy. That moment is seared into my mind.

I still sponsor that student. He is in college now and it feels great to know that I can make a positive difference in the life of one student.

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Not a story but a comment on yours ... reminds me of what my dad always told me as a young kid when I was itching to leave ... never leave a game before it's over, you paid good money to see the whole game (and always finish your beer, you paid good money for it ... and he lived by both) ... to this day I have followed both pieces of advice ... seen a few good comebacks in the last inning / minute (and a few other interesting happenings post game, like a good old fashioned hockey brawl after both benches had cleared, even the goalies were mixing it up with each other) ... I snicker when I read a story about someone who is on their way out to beat the traffic and they hear the crowd (or what's left of it) roar with excitement and they comment on how they missed it ... too bad, so sad ... passed both pieces of advise to my 2 girls as they grew up, I hope they listened to their wise old man like I did.

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As a little girl I loved to listen to the stories my Sicilian grandmother told me in her broken, heavily accented English, about her little hometown in the province of Palermo. My grandmother never had the opportunity to return to her hometown but I told myself that I would one day go, in her honor and memory. I have now gone twice, and even met relatives that still live there. The attraction was and is very strong. I so much enjoyed seeing and walking those streets, seeing ancestral houses and the town's chiesa madre, where for centuries everyone in both of my grandparents' families were baptized and married. The I have done lots of genealogical research and can trace the family back to the 1400s. All that research is very tangible for me, since I have been there. I remember that a few years ago, Zoe, on this forum, remarked about searching the faces of those in her ancestral town, looking for familiarities and wondering if there was a long ago connection. I felt exactly the same way.

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I don't have one memorable day, but a place that seems to have many memorable moments - Tanzania over 3 trips.
-Sitting in a Maasai momma's hut asking and receiving questions. A round hut about 10ft across where 5 people sleep and holds all their riches. Humbles one about living in a society where conspicuous consumption is to be aspired to.
-Walking the acacia plains in a conservancy with my 20 year old Maasai warrior 'Papa' telling me how he killed his lion in his right of passage....then having to have some photo time with him modeling on a huge baobob tree like a GQ model...but wearing a tartan skirt.
- Breaking a shoulder in a jeep accident in the Serengeti, putting on the stiff upper lip and carrying on. 3 days later having to run with 2 other Maasai to get out of wind range of a mad bull elephant that picked up our scent. Thank god their eyes are bad.
- Any day, or night, in the Serengeti offers a sky like you cannot behold in an urban environment. Clouds changing constantly from horizon to horizon. Stars, the Milky Way like you can only see when there is no light pollution.
- meeting some Maasai women at the watering hole with their 2 donkeys. They had walked 6 or 7 kilometres to fill their watering jugs for consumption. The watering hole is rain fed so they think it superior. It is by now close to 10 a.m. so by now, the cows, goats and donkeys have all waded in and had their fill; certainly contributing 'something' along the way. But there are the women filling up those jugs. Yes, I am thankful for city plumbed water.
- volunteering with a woman's sewing group where my skills did make a difference for them - not just in what they sewed, but to help some learn their innate abilities and to bring them out of their lower position to take a leading roll at times.
- Being treated like a queen one day with a football (soccer) game in my honor. I donated some team uniforms and balls, so they invited me to attend. I was escorted to the exact spot on the stage where the Pope sat on his visit many years ago. They set the young ones to cutting branches and using them to sweep the constantly present red soil dust from the area. The middle aged ones went to a nearby restaurant to grab some chairs as there was no seating built in. My throne for the day was a white resin deck chair.

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And as a last memory:
I found my journal and thought to provide a long excerpt. This anticipation happened pretty much every work morning:
Bonite is known for Bonite Bottler Ltd. and for the carrot washers in the Bonite River. The daladala turns a corner and the bridge comes into view. Everyone looks right to see the height of the river at the area where the carrots are washed and the heads shake and comments flow. The nightly rains swell the river and change the dynamics of the washings. Even before we reach the river, you can hear the discussions revolving around the mboga mboga (vegetables and prices in the Mbunyi Market that morning) and carroti.
The process of the carrot washings are as follows:
emphasized textA large truck comes with bags of carrots, still with tops on straight from the fields. They are filled in such a way that the top layer of carrots extend past the top of the bag making it about 4 or so feet tall. A man moves up to the back bed and 3 others 'spot' him while the guy in the truck tips the bag onto the man's shoulders and the others help balance it. It must way close to 100 pounds and you can see him strain under the weight. He duck walks as fast as he can down a slope to a flat area and tips the bag so that it stands up again. There, more men spot him for this process. If it is carried, it takes 4 men, one at each corner to carry this bag. Men and women then remove the carrots from the bag and rip off the green tops. The carrots are tossed onto tarps then put into smaller bags; maybe 40 or 50 pounds. These are carried down to a cement ledge by the river where the river often runs over in a shallow flow and men grab the bags and shake them while the water runs through the bag. This is another arduous job requiring strength. If the river is too high, pails of water are scooped and tossed over the loose carrots to wash them, then they are bagged. The bags are then carried up the slope for draining and then packed into another truck for delivery. Sometimes the carrots get away, so enterprising youths go downstream a bit and wade in and catch the carrots floating by. The entire process is labour intensive and a back breaking process. In the middle of the area is a large strangling fig tree with large roots that sit above ground. It is not uncommon to see someone nestled in the depression between the roots sleeping on the hard ground. Tires are planted upright in an area for sitting upon, though how much leisure there is, is hard to tell. Again, today, while waiting for the workday to begin, a woman is sleeping on a cement bag with a kanga draped over her head and body. Tanzanians have learned to take their sleep where they can get it.
Where all the carrots are grown, and where they are delivered, I haven't been able to figure out. Supposedly, carrots are hard to grow, but considering the numbers that are washed every day, someone is making a success of it. This is Africa. Everything takes more manual labour that in the Western world and intense labour is taken for granted. Could some conveyor belt system in a wash tank by employed? Probably, but then there are the power outages to consider, and this method does employ more people than a mechanized version would.
The area's colours vary depending on the time. Against the rust of the packed dirt and the brown of the muddy swollen river, there are large splashes of orange from time to time. The colour is intense enough to dull the colours of the women's kangas which are often bright with reds, yellows and oranges. In the stark white of Canada winters, these scenes will return – with the intensity of colours, sounds and smells. I may be 14,000 kilometres from Bonite, but Bonite will always hold a place in my heart and memory.

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Seeing a road sign for the Gap of Dunloe on a drive back from Killarney to my Dingle BnB.

Next morning got up before breakfast and drove to the “closed for the season Kate’s Cottage” ( it was November), parked and began my trek up the Gap on foot.

It was the sunshine, the dark dark rain laden clouds and the mountains vegetation’s hues of red and gold, coupled with the sheep that made my trek memorable. Clouds never burst. Saw a few lorries, 1 trap, a few cars and 3 other hikers. The solitude and the beauty contributed to the best memorable day ever in all my travels.

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Three years ago today we spent our last night in Madrid. It was my first time to Spain and even to Europe. We travelled on the high speed train from Seville, and stayed at a hotel near the train station. I remember we bought some saffron for my Mom and some other items as souveniers, and we found a place called Bodegas Rosell for dinner. I sat at a table outside and Nick walked back to the hotel to drop off the stuff. I loved just sitting and watching the people go by. When he got back, we had the most delicious dinner of the whole trip - sirloin with pate, tomatoes with brie. Oh, I wish we could go back!! :)

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There are many memorable days over the years of travel but two stand out and of them, one the truly ranks first. I always try to fit in a visit an American Military Cemetery on our trips. So it was that we came to the cemetery at Saint-James in Brittany. It is somewhat out of the way and smaller than Normandy but nonetheless some 4400 of our soldiers were buried here. When we got there, there were only two other cars in the visitors parking lot, one a rental and the other a rather tired looking 1950-ish Renault station wagon. As we walked around, we met a very interesting Vietnamese-American who had the rental car, he likewise felt an obligation to visit our military cemeteries. Off at the very edge of the cemetery I could see an elderly French couple standing side by side with their heads bowed in reverence. Sometime after they left I went out to see where they had been, and there were two graves side by side with fresh potted flowers on them. Both graves had the same markings: HERE RESTS IN HONORED GLORY A COMRADE IN ARMS KNOWN BUT TO GOD. Somewhere around a quarter of the graves in our military cemeteries are empty, the remains having been repatriated by the families for reburial at home but the Unknowns will be there forever and this French couple had paid their respects.

October 1, 2011, a day to remember.