What is it that results in SOME experienced travelers looking down on newbie travelers or travelers that want to go to the most popular/busy travel destination?
Everyone made their first trip. And unless we travelled as a child with experienced adults we have all had to learn the ins and outs of travel. As well as what works for us. And where we want to go.
And their are reasons the more popular locations are you know.. popular. It is because most folks want to see them. Because the are usually amazing locations to visit,
I highly doubt their are many experienced travelers who have traveled to a given local and not at SOME-POINT visited these popular tourist spots. Who has gone to Paris and NOT visited the Eiffel Tower or Notre Dame? Yes, i am sure someone will say they have not, but 99.99999999999% of tourist visiting Paris have seen the more common tourist attractions. this is why they are popular tourist locations.
But to hear some folks talk both on this and other forums and you would be lead to believe that experienced travelers would never stoop to visiting these attractions. And that these locations are. ot worth visiting.
Yes it would be nice to be able to spend so much time in Europe that i could spare the time to go see some odd ball place or other but my time and money is very limited. As is that of most folks working in the US. So while I still have major locations such as Milano or Rome or Counties such as Ireland or Scotland or most of England still to see I (and most other travelers) will be going to popular tourist locations. I am not going to give up seeing the Cotswolds so i can spend a day in some no name town seeing how “the real English live” or whatever.
Yes are these locations popular/busy? Sure they are. But their are reasons for this.
Similar issues seam to get lost when more experienced travelers look down on someone who only spends 3 or so nights in many different locations. I cant count how many posts I have seen from someone who has made dozens of trips to Europe telling someone they simply MUST only visit 1 location a week. (or whatever) Yes you can try for way to much and thus make your trip less enjoyable. But not everyone will get to travel to Europe once (or more) time a year for decades. For many it actually IS. a “Once in a lifetime” trip. And even if they do someday pull off a second trip that still means they probably will spend only 4 to 6 weeks in Europe in their whole lives.
I am a relatively inexperienced traveler on this forum, having only about 12-14 weeks in europe total. But i am willing to bet that for US citizens who have made it to Europe i am probably in the top 10% time wise.
And speaking as a traveler with enough time in Europe to kniw what i like and what i am doing, and having traveled quite a lot more in the US and Canada I can tell you that i would rather spend 3 days in Rome and two in Florence vs all 5 in Rome. would i love to spend a month in Rome? SURE but for me and most travelers that is not an option. The choice is 3 days in Rome and 2 in Florence or No Florence at all. probably Ever.
I know the argument that “you will be back” but will you? really? I suspect that most will not be back. And for many of those that will be back it will be a. ery limited number of trips in thier life and as such they probably wont have a chance to see Florence (in my example) as the next trip will be somewhere else like Great Britain or France,
So I think we on this forum need to consider the person whom is asking for advice. If they are somewhat experienced on their 3rd trip and expect to be back 4 or 5 times more then that is different from those that have saved up for years or decades to get three weeks in Europe and short of hitting lotto probably will never be back.
Their is after al a reason RS does the Best of Europe tours.
So perhaps we need to look at things from more then one point of view.
Just a thought.