We are looking to take our two boys who will be 6 and 2 to either Lucerne, Switzerland or Rome, Italy for 8 nights in October. We will not be bringing car seats and would like a location with a great train system to get around. Can someone please help us with the following questions?
1) Is Switzerland very cold the first week in October? We don't mind wearing jackets but don't want it to be freezing. We also understand it will be colder if we go up to the top of some of the peaks.
2) We are leaning towards Switzerland thinking Lucerne will be a calmer and less crowded location than Italy for the boys. We want a place that has enough to do but is still peaceful and relaxing. Will Lucerne be a nice blend of relaxing but still have plenty for us to do and see with the boys? We like to be out during the day and back by 7pm for the boys' bedtime so nightlife is not important for us.
3) We don't mind taking day trips up to two hour train rides one way. Is there enough to do near Lucerne, Switzerland with day trips? We were thinking of day trips to Zurich, Bern, Basel, Lugano, Mt. Pilatus, Konstanz (Germany). How are these locations for day trips from Lucerne?
Ideally, we like the idea of staying outside of a big city like Lucerne but having the ability to take train rides to different cities to explore.
Thanks for the input and advice!