Hi,
There was a lengthy discussion in May about how we can generally treat the OP better. Of course, there are also things we (RSE) can do to help ease some of the frustration leading to negative encounters. There were suggestions in that thread -- ranging from the infeasible to solutions already in effect -- that included some good ideas.
Something Lynn suggested is an update to our How To page. I've used some of her text to add a "Getting the Most from Your Travel Question" section to the top of our Tips. While not all new members will see this, and I admit this likely won't be a huge game changer, hopefully this can help the OP provide enough info in their questions.
If you have other suggestions, feel free to add them to the comments below.