Wow, enjoying everyones tales,, and surprised how many turn out good even with some pretty dire circumstances occurring intially!
I personally find the last 2-3 days before a trip VERY stressful and least pleasant of whole trip experience from intial plans to return trip.
Why,, ?? All the final getting ready stuff, leaving the house clean( this is important, who wants to come home to mess) leaving notes for pet sitters, plant waterers , making sure mail and paper is stopped, or if hubby and kids are staying home, then I cook and freeze food, I stock the shelves and fridge, make sure everyones bed linens are clean( since once I am gone, no matter how long I am gone, they will not be changed! LOL)
Basically I exhaust myself making sure everything and everyone is ready. Hubby and kids just come along for the ride...really. Hubby does NO planning at all ( he is easy going and lets me make all choices really) and no packing.
He carries luggage, and plane tickets.