Just another random thought. Y'all know I work in a museum and handle visitor questions daily, and I have to admit, "where should I eat?" is easily my least favorite question to answer. Being a local doesn't mean I dine at every single restaurant in town. I’ve been to a lot of them, but like anyone else, my personal favorites consist of a small handful of spots in my routine rotation, which may not align at all with a visitor's tastes or expectations -- and I hate seafood.
For instance, breakfast is my go-to meal out, and it's every morning of my days off at the exact same cafe. I get the same large coffee and the same toast with orange marmalade and sausage. I go there simply because I like it, the staff are great, and I can sit in my same little corner, get lost in my tablet, and people watch.
Also, a real issue with the question is that most visitors who ask it don't actually know what they want. Without any parameters, I feel like I'm just blindly rattling off a list of random restaurants, hoping something sticks. And that’s the main disconnect with the whole "ask a local" travel maxim. When tourists ask us for our favorites, they think they are getting an insider track to a curated culinary adventure. In reality, my absolute favorite spot is just a quiet corner for routine comfort food, which is rarely the spectacular, novel experience a tourist is actually hunting for.