Marty and Forum,
Back in the day when I first got a computer and did online searches, I was often frustrated because I didn't have a clue about how to frame my search questions. I got so many irrelevant and useless responses! I learned over time to put quotation marks around some words or names, and how to put more details into my search bar to narrow down the number of responses. I learned to note the sponsored replies, and to scroll down and to go to subsequent pages for more information. I learned how to figure out what responses were actually answers to my questions. Even doing a search on this forum took me a few times to do so efficiently.
Thus, I have some sympathy for new posters when they ask questions that they may have been able to get answers to on their own, but for some reason, didn't. As someone said, you don't know what you don't know. That being said, a gentle (not aggressive or snarky) suggestion about where to do some research first on their own is not a bad thing. And saying to come back after that, and to provide more info and/or context isn't necessarily mean or arrogant.
I was blown away when a kind and patient person on a website (not travel-related) told me how to open more than one window at a time on my PC. I had been frustrated for a year with complications from not knowing how to do that. Also never having taken a class in computers, no one told me how to cut and paste, etc. I was fluent with the system I used when I worked, but I repeated tasks several times a day so it was automatic to do certain things. Something that I might do once every 3-6 months, I had to relearn or at least refresh myself on when called upon to do it. I still do some things by a workaround because I feel more confident about that way. I don't have a smart watch and don't do tons of things with my phone. I use and do what is comfortable for me, appreciate the help given to me by those who know a lot more, and am not ashamed to not be super tech-savvy.
I hope the learning curve continues in an upward arc for me, not downward.