I think it would be very, very, sad, and very very bad, if a parent did not take the opportunity to enjoy travel while their health is good, instead saving their money to leave to their children after their death. I mean, that just sounds very very warped to me.
How does anyone even think that makes sense?
These "children" are freaking 30, 40 and 50 yrs old,, they are not anyones finaicial responsibility anymore.
If as a parent you have screwed up so badly that your adult chilren are counting on your money after death, then my condolences to you. If however you have a disabled child you feel you many need your support for his or hers lifetime, then that I do understand.
We, like many travel bugs ,, do not buy new cars or furniture regularily, we do not care if our couch is 10 years old, we do not really need to replace the carpet in the spare room we hardly use, and we do not buy expensive clothes every month.
It is all priorities.
Learned that back in 1985, my friend and I did not have cars, steroes, or fancy duds, but we did get to go on a three month trip to Europe,, how many of our friends, who had all those things, would look at us and say " lucky you",, that was annoying. Luck , smuck, work and save.