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Happy Christmas Adam- Kids think the darndest things ! And a sad note, too.

Some friends of our refer to December 23 as Christmas Adam. The wife explains it this way- as children, she and her sister linked the story of creation (Adam and Eve) with Christmas in their minds. Therefore, if December 24 was Christmas Eve, the 23rd must be Christmas Adam. It made their parents smile when they explained their reasoning, and it became a family tradition- one they have continued into their marriages and extended families.

So- Happy Christmas Adam!

And may you you have as safe and happy a holiday as possible.

We are feeling a bit sad right now, so I'm using things like this happy story to try and keep up my spirits. My husband's mother passed away late Sunday (Dec. 20) night. She had apparently had either a major stroke or suffered heart failure. Because she had tested positive for COVID two weeks earlier (though symptom free), we could not go to her; though when found unresponsive at her assisted living center on Sunday morning she was already past knowing if we were there.

She had shared her wishes for how she wanted to die with all of the family, so decisions were easy and the doctors at the hospital were marvelous in respecting our decisions and treating her, and us with great compassion and dignity. The only really disappointing bit, was that we could not donate her body for medical research or study, due to COVID. But considering everything else going on in the world at this time, that is a minor consideration.

Please stay safe!

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So hard, Toni. All the best to you and your husband.

Posted by
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Sorry to learn your sad news, Toni. And thanks for sharing the Christmas Adam story, giving us another day to celebrate. Hopefully next year will be better for us all.

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Oh, Toni, we are so sorry. A hard loss at any time, but somehow happening just before Christmas makes it even worse.

Thank you for the sweet story; Happy Christmas Adam to you and your family.

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Toni, my deepest condolences to your husband and the entire family. That’s such difficult news in what has to have been a very difficult year. I hope you’ll all have better times ahead.

Regarding your fun Adam and Eve around Christmas story, I wonder if there’s possibly something like it in the U.K.? With December 26 observed there as Boxing Day, could any kids have deemed Dec. 27 as something like Canning Day — or even Wrestling Day?

Good for you in finding a way to brighten your spirits.

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May your family be blessed with peace and tranquility in your hearts, minds, bodies and souls.

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14630 posts

Toni, I love the story of Christmas Adam and it falls on Festivus as well, lol!!

My deepest sympathy for your family with the loss of your MIL.

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Thank you for all the kind well wishes. My mother-in-law had a long, useful and happy life. We are all better people for having had her in our lives.

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Loving Christmas Adam. I need to remember that next year.

Sad for your loss, Toni.

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Such a sweet and sad post. Thank you for sharing and please accept my condolences.