It has been over 20 years, but the Kildrummy Castle Hotel in Aberdeenshire really stands out. The hotel was so gracious with our kids (8 and 10 at the time) and went above and beyond for us. On our last morning we had to leave before breakfast and they said they would make us something. When we got up in the morning, they had a grand spread for us on a large table in the dining room. Just for us! Our room overlooked the old castle ruins and the room itself was beautiful. Our daughter loved to draw, and there was a drawing room, so she sat in there silently for hours just drawing;)
Not a fancy place by any means, but the Casci Hotel in Florence was also so gracious with our kids (5 and 8). The day we were taking the train to Venice, they gave the kids a few treats for the journey including Orangina and blood oranges. Just those little gestures make a big impact.
On apartment in Paris (not operating any more) had the best owner. She met me while the girls were still in class and she walked me all over the neighborhood showing me the places to go and the places to skip, and introduced me to several of the shop owners. When the kids were done and met up with me, she had all of us come to her home and meet her family and she was very interested in the girls study abroad.
My favorite hotel in Paris was the Hotel Brittanique. We loved the location and the rooms were gorgeous. We had little balconies and I can still picture us standing there taking it all in. The staff were so helpful as well. I would love to return, but their prices have skyrocketed.
Two of my favorite small guesthouses are in Iceland, both in Stikkisholmur. One was Hotel Egilsen and the other was Akkeri Guesthouse, both with wonderful views of the harbor. They are next door to each other and both were just excellent.
At Akkeri, we had the kids with us as well (late 20's by this time) so we had two rooms. The breakfast room had a fridge for people to use, and most people kept wine or beer in there. By the late afternoon, guests would gather and chat and make new friends. We met two couples that were from Reykjavik and we drank and talked with them for hours. In the morning, that breakfast room was transformed into the most beautiful place with china and linens, but still casual. The owner sat down with us that morning to see what our plans for the day were and she gave us some excellent advice and sent us to places we had not even heard of.
At Egilsen last fall, I was with a friend and we adored the room. Breakfast was so good and healthy, probably our best one of all of our trips. One of the best restaurants in the country is across the street from these places, so even better:) The town is tiny, so being able to go walk along the harbor early in the morning or later at night was so peaceful.
Another place in Iceland that we adored was Heydalur up in the Westfjords. We had a camper van on that trip, but they also have regular lodging. The entire place though was just so peaceful and beautiful. A swimming pool in the greenhouse, hot springs right outside, and then another down the hill and across the creek. You had those to yourself as the place is so isolated. We rode horses there in the morning, and it was low tide so we were able to ride along the fjord. It is so laid back that we did not even need to sign waivers or anything. It was just "oh you want to ride, ok, let's go". Their restaurant was very good and best of all is that they have a golden retriever;) When I was looking at possible places and found a photo of their dog, I knew that was a must stop:) There is also a hot spring right next to the fjord , but on the other side of where Heydalur is, so it is a bit of a drive. After the horse ride, they gave us a few horse shoes that my husband cleaned up and hung above two doors. So a constant reminder of a beautiful place, and they are supposed to bring good luck.