Slow work day, and I found this article.
https://www.dmarge.com/2021/02/social-media-mistake-paris.html
It focuses on a Parisian faux pas of Instagramming your life while you’re supposed to be enjoying it; (ironically the quote and photo the article is based on is from Instagram). But what struck me was this quote;
"Café life is when you just take the time to love a little instead of rushing from place to place. It is when you can afford to wait 15-20 minutes to have your order taken for a simple coffee and another 15-20 minutes to have it brought to you."
Is a 20 minute wait uniquely Parisian or annoyingly Parisian? Is it really like this or just a romantic stereotype with more fiction than fact? I dream of a time when I’ll be spending 30 days in some of the world’s great cities and making an attempt at living kind-of-like a local. But I’m wound so tight at the best of times that I think my head would explode if I had to wait 20 minutes for someone to take my order and another 20 just to get it; those ants in my pants aren’t getting any younger.
I’m probably a walking contradiction though. While I have no desire to experience a Parisian coffee break, I’d probably jump at the chance to experience 3 hours in a London Pub watching a soccer game like a local. (Does anyone watch Ted Lasso? I’d love to hang out with those goofy Richmond fans in their pub).
I’m curious when it comes to local culture norms, do you try to embrace them and live like a local, or do you politely accept them until you can make your escape?