David, I am sorry for the loss of your beloved Oma. Reading your post brought back so many wonderful Christmas memories of my Grandma whose parents came from Prussia. She prepared so many German food items at Christmastime. She especially baked dozens and dozens of Christmas cookies. As she lived across the country road from my family, I helped her bake.
Now I carry on Grandma's tradition and bake dozens and dozens of Christmas cookies. I especially enjoy making Springerle. While I do not have her molds, I have many purchased at Jobin in Brienz, Switzerland and various places in Germany. Over the years I have so many cookie cutters purchased from those two countries, they have their own drawer. I bake cut out cookies throughout the year but bake many dozen at Christmastime. This time of year I also like to bake an almond flavored cutout cookie recipe given to me by a lady from Germany. And the season just wouldn't be right without a batch of gingerbread women and men. One of my favorite cut out cookie recipes is Mailanderli, a Swiss recipe.
My Mom is of (partially) English descent. Her family tradition is mincemeat filled oatmeal cookies. which are baked only at the holiday season. Her family also has a tradition of baked beans using a specific recipe. In fact I have a batch of beans in the oven as I type this message. They are served at every holiday and family gathering.
I enjoy shopping flea markets when in Europe. I have several soup ladles of various sizes, mostly from the Geneva flea market. I use them often during the holiday season which coincides with part of "soup season" up here in the northland. I have many other kitchen tools purchased at European flea markets. Using them brings back wonderful memories.
My husband and I enjoy cheese fondue. A Swiss friend introduced us to fondue a few decades ago. We prepare it not only at Christmastime but throughout the winter season.
As someone previously mentioned I also serve ham for Christmas dinner. My favorite side dish is German Potato Salad (called GPS around our house). The recipe is not my Grandma's but one I found in a cookbook. It's been a hit with anyone of German descent. The recipe takes hours to prepare but the result is worth the effort.
Of course it's just not right to bake cookies without listening to Christmas music. I still have CDs and the Christmas ones purchased in Germany and Switzerland are always played . We have so many Christmas CDs and even cassette tapes there are years when we never get them all in before New Years.
I wish you all a good holiday season whatever your tradition. And don't let the stresses of the season get to you. If you are grieving may good memories be a comfort.
Traveler Girl