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Communication Is Not Always Language

I took this from a Flicker.net story on a photographer.

"Throughout her travels, Mimo is often surrounded by people who don’t speak her language, so she communicates with those she meets through gestures and smiles, hoping they will be returned. “When I get a smile, it’s for me a huge reward,” Mimo says. “A smile is something healing that happens between two people. Whatever was there that was strange between you just melts away.""

SOURCE: http://blog.flickr.net/en/2014/09/05/moments-of-emotion-from-around-the-globe/

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On the other hand, many Europeans are driven mad by the American propensity to smile all the time. Sorry, but think it is a pretty simplistic statement.

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Personal experience from my first trip to Europe in the 70s:

Picked up while hitch-hiking to a hostel on a small road in Scotland. The driver, an older gentleman, said the locals had been warned not to pick people up, but he knew when he saw my smile that I would be okay.

Chastised for not smiling at a small museum in Amsterdam. I was so busy trying to figure out what I needed to do as I came inside the door, that indeed, I was not smiling. Direct quote, "Why you no smile?" with his finger pointing to his mouth. I apologized for inattentiveness, smiled and all was well.

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Many Europeans are driven mad by americans smiling?
What is this broad brushed statement based upon?

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From a list of items that I used to relate to when I was an expat in Sweden:

You know you've been in Sweden too long ...
5. When a stranger on the street smiles at you, you assume:
a: he is drunk
b: he is insane
c: he's an American

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So the inferance is in order to be a smiling Swedish citizen they must be drunk or crazy?

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Btw: attempting humour with posts can often be lost in translation.
Not trying to antagonistic, just having some fun.
So count me as an always smiling American regardless of where I am on the globe.
;)

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You are OK, Marbleskies. I go by the saying, among others, "Smile & the world smiles with you." ;-)

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Maybe your face is naturally miserable, but your response is perfect for making someone smile!

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I think the point of this post is that you can convey emotion through body language even if you do not speak the language. And I agree. I am 100% certain I have seen people from other countries smile and Americans frown. When I meet a new person in a foreign country (or America), I will usually smile. And GUESS WHAT????? They usually smile back!

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Marbleskies, Humor?!!!! you want HUMOR!!!!! When I grew up there was no HUMOR!!! You were lucky. We lived for three months in a paper bag in a septic tank. We used to have to get up at six in the morning, clean the paper bag, eat a crust of stale bread, go to work down t' mill, fourteen hours a day, week-in week-out, for sixpence a week, and when we got home our Dad would thrash us to sleep wi' his belt. AND YOU WANT ME TO SMILE!!??

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