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Booking.com reservation dispute -- lessons learned

I recently went through a dispute process regarding a lodging I reserved through Booking.com. I wanted to share some lessons I learned as a result of that process.

Background: I had a fairly last-minute opportunity to take my 3 kids to see Taylor Swift in Toronto last November. With about 2 weeks’ notice, I needed to secure lodgings for the 4 of us in a very sold-out town. Because of the parking/traffic situation and because one of my kids is mobility-challenged, I wanted to be able to park the car at our lodgings and walk no more than a block or two to the concert venue. So my choices were very, very limited.

I wound up reserving a 2-BR apartment for the one night in a great location for a reasonable price. Downside was that the listing was new to Booking.com with no review history and nonrefundable. Normally I wouldn’t touch this with a 10 foot pole, but I figured we could deal with any issues that might crop up in the very few hours we were actually going to be there. Note that I am a very seasoned Booking.com user, with tons of previous reservations. I’m pretty savvy about what to look for, and I knew this one might be risky.

Over the next few days, my communications with the host made me say “uh oh” to myself; there were difficulties with response time, payment (via PayPal), getting check-in/parking information. I went ahead at this point and made a backup reservation, fully refundable, at a nearby hotel (at more than 4x the price of the apartment).

End of story: We arrived in Toronto at 3:30 p.m. the day of the concert, which was the agreed-upon time for checking in to the apartment. I had no check-in instructions, no parking instructions, nothing but the street address of the high-rise apartment building. Given the difficulties with communicating with the host over the previous two weeks and the lack of check-in information, I drove to my back-up hotel, checked in there, and we had a lovely (though expensive!) stay. The check-in instructions for the apartment arrived via Booking.com messaging at 4:15, at which point I told the host that it was past our agreed-on check-in time and that he had not satisfied the terms of our reservation agreement.

I also contacted Booking.com as soon as I checked in to the hotel to inform them of the circumstances with the apartment, and they agreed that the reservation should be canceled and my payment refunded. However… I would need to seek the refund myself from the apartment host because I had paid him directly via PayPal.

Ultimately, I was unsuccessful having the host refund my payment directly. After a week of trying, I lodged a dispute with Booking.com and also with my credit card company (Costco CitiBank Visa). In the end, CitiBank won the race and settled the dispute in my favor. Booking.com agreed that I was owed a refund, but it was a time-consuming, tedious process to continually follow up with them.

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Here are the lessons I learned:

  1. Take screen shots of messages and notifications from Booking.com as they are posted. After a while, the date and time stamps drop off, and eventually, some time after the booking is completed, you lose access to the messages at all. I didn’t realize this until, during the dispute process, I tried to go back and look up the messages between the host and myself. Fortunately, I’m pretty paranoid and had documented everything anyway, and I was able to prove that I didn’t have timely check-in instructions. But if I hadn’t done screen shots early in the process, I would have lost all of that crucial information to send to my credit card company.

  2. Document expectations in the messaging system to the host. Document your agreed-on arrival time, document when you expect to receive check-in instructions, document if/when you need to meet the host or collect keys, etc. I’ve never had any trouble with this information for any of my other dozens of bookings, but this one made me realize the importance of having it all in writing.

  3. No more non-refundable, no-review bookings for me ever again. I knew it wasn’t a great choice this time, but next time I’ll just suck it up and pay more for refundable.

  4. The Booking.com dispute process is a pain. Messaging was difficult; each time I messaged Customer Service, it seemed like the process would start all over again with no reference to the current status of my dispute. I had great response the two times when I called and spoke to an agent; however, when I asked that the outcome of our telephone conversation be documented and emailed to me (for example, “Booking.com is contacting the host to request payment; the customer is awaiting response from the host”), I never received any documentation. So, I could never “prove” that I had spoken to anyone at Booking.com who had informed me that the company was taking action and I did not need to do anything.

  5. Costco CitiBank Visa rocks. This was my second dispute with them over a lodging reservation (anyone out there remember London Connection going bankrupt during the pandemic???). In both cases, they were quick, responsive, shared documentation and review findings, were clear in requesting documentation from me, gave deadlines, and resolved both disputes in my favor.

In the end, I’m still a Booking.com customer and they’re my go-to for reservations. But I’ve learned some good lessons for future bookings.

Happy Travels!

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Thank you for sharing - and for the "lessons learned" action list!

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I would add that I also shy away from any pre-payment not through Booking. Just a huge flag if the property chooses to not use Booking as the payment platform. Of course this does not apply to a hotel that is "Pay at the Property", but I simply do not use PayPal, Venmo, or cash as payment.

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Paul, I agree, that is also a flag for me now. Thanks for the reminder.

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Thank you for sharing all of this. I am sorry that it happened, but I haven no doubt that your story will help others.

I was just looking at a place on booking that was brand new as well. They were listed on other platforms though with great reviews, and the location was just a few doors from family, so I checked with them. It all worked out as the family and rental owners are good friends, so we ended up booking off site. I kept looking at the no reviews though, and like you were weighing whether I should chance it or not.

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Well I’m glad (after much effort), you got your refund. So far, so good with Booking.com! I have not had any issues, but thanks for sharing!

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I am also a fan of booking.com and will still use them when it makes sense, but thanks for the reminder to others about new listings with no reviews. Anytime I recommend booking to anyone, I always caution them to read the reviews. I personally never rent a place unless it's a 9+ and has a reasonable number of reviews with actual details. I've also moved more to direct booking over the last couple of trips. I start research with booking, then google and check other platforms to see if there's anyway to book direct. I've saved a pretty penny.
I understand your options were limited and I'm happy it worked out to your satisfaction.