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Bereavement Fares

I'm looking for people with experience dealing with airlines for purchasing a ticket to travel to a funeral.

I'm considering bringing my daughter home for my dad's funeral service. She lives in Honolulu for graduate school and would need to fly back to Minnesota. I'm currently holding on Delta.com to find out what they offer.

I've heard that the bereavement fares offer more flexible travel arrangements but I've also heard that there is not much of a discount. Currently for Delta, the cheapest basic economy tickets are about $1200. I've looked at Alaskan in the past and they've had awful layovers in Seattle.

If anyone has used these fares, it would save me some time poking around on the internet for information when I have other things to do.

Thank you

Posted by
2792 posts

Sorry to hear about your loss.

We looked into them a few years ago on Delta (Precovid) and did not find they were any better pricewise. I really don't recall anything about flexibility as we didn't need that.

I tried my usual source for Delta (flyertalk) and struck out on more info! Sorry!

Posted by
6813 posts

No personal experience. I have heard  (not via any official channels, just hearsay) that airlines no longer offer special bereavement fares, in part because people had abused the policy (surprise - see Seinfeld), because it's just too much trouble for them, and because they already offer fares as cheaply as they can.

As to awful layovers...Alaska Airlines is based in Seattle, and for them Hawaii service is all about serving the west coast leisure market, so flights are timed for people who live in/near the west coast cities they serve. Connections onward to the east coming from Hawaii are probably going to require an overnight. You might find better options (from the standpoint of layovers and schedules) from other airlines that are not built on a west coast-centric business model. The problem you will probably find is that, although there are some flights to Hawaii from cities closer to your intended destination (Minnesota), there's little competition on those routes, so fares are high (Hawaii is very well connected to cities in the far west, but the further east you look, the options quickly thin out and all but disappear -- folks from the east coast do not go to Hawaii much; conversely...east coast residents have a plethora of options for easy, direct flights to the Caribbean and Latin America, which west coast cities do not). Unfortunately, your options for easy/direct/convenient AND inexpensive flights from Hawaii to the upper midwest will be very limited. You may have to choose between inconvenient and expensive.

I'd look at United, Delta, American, and Hawaiian Airlines, in that order. Good luck.

Posted by
6587 posts

Thanks for the info so far. I did talk to Delta, the bereavement fare is 10% off which honestly, doesn't help a lot with last minute tickets from Hawaii, but it is something.

I was just experimenting with doing two separate tickets. One honolulu to Seattle and one Seattle to Minneapolis. I could plan for overnights in Seattle (I have a son that lives in Seattle area). A friend told me once that if they both on Delta, if I call, they will connect them so if there is a cancellation/delay, it is easier to handle. Has anyone had this experience?

And, we may just look into Zooming her into the service.

Posted by
1608 posts

I’m sorry for your loss. When my father passed away I was out of town and needed to change my return. The bereavement policy (I think it was united) allowed me to change the flight without charge but I don’t believe there was a significant if any discount.

Posted by
14822 posts

Jules...no advice at all but just wanted to express my sympathy on your loss.

Posted by
17562 posts

Both Delta and Alaska have been canceling flights due to staffing issues—— mainly in April and May for Alaska, and they claim to have reduced their schedule to accommodate the problem so it should not be a continuing issue. Delta canceled many to/from Seattle over the holiday weekend and I just saw a post on TripAdvisor about a flight to Seattle from Nashville that was canceled for today. I hope this does not have an impact on your daughter’s flight.

Alaska does offer one flight combination that does not have a long layover in Seattle. Depart Honolulu at 8 am, arrive Seattle 4:55 pm; depart Seattle at 6:16 pm and arrive MSP at 11:34. Not great but no red-eye flights or long layover. But is is sold out some days in the coming week, and very expensive ($1500) on other days.

I hope you can find a reasonable solution.

Posted by
567 posts

Hi Jules

I'm so sorry for your loss. I wonder if this would be a time to consult a travel agent. Many years ago we had to change a trip due to bereavement and they were able to navigate this for us much easier than we could.

Posted by
6552 posts

Jules, so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad last year and am still reeling.

Posted by
6587 posts

Thank you for the suggestions and kind messages.

The takeaway, I think, is to ask your loved ones to not pass in the summer especially when domestic travel is on such an upswing.

We decided to bring my daughter home in July, as planned, to enjoy time with family. She will ZOOM the service. My son is coming from Seattle for the service without his wife and baby. Airfares for all were extremely high and empty seats short in supply. A Delta agent spent a lot of time with my daughter in law to find a flight at somewhat reasonable cost for my son.

Delta does offer flexibility and a small discount in these situations. I never checked the other airlines. I never thought too much about why flights times between Hawaii/West coast and MN were so strange. Makes all kinds of sense now.

Posted by
8913 posts

Due to covid restrictions (at the time 30 person limit) we had several family members who lived far away participate through life stream for my father-in-law's service. His elderly siblings who live far away were able to participate and this meant a great deal to them. Covid has brought many strange things, but the ability to livestream services for those who can not attend is one positive.