I friend and colleague at work, Ernie, returned from two weeks in Italy and regaled a few of us with his trip adventures. In reality it was a rather pro forma trip report and a bit generic, but still enjoyable to hear him share his experiences.
My wife is now hesitant to share our trips online because she senses it really doesn't go over as intended but more like showing off or bragging. She's just not comfortable doing it any more, or at least does so on a much more limited basis. I guess some folks think we're rich to be able to go to Europe for a week or two most years, but heck I drive a 2011 Kia Optima with 150,000 miles on it and my wife has 2009 Toyota Camry with similar mileage. We have no debts but we're not rich--at all--by American standards. We hardly ever eat out and our activities are generally cheap or free like going to a movie, walking, cycling, and hiking. Our big luxury is paying $520 per year total for a par 3 golf course membership, and yes we're both terrible golfers but it's fun. We laugh at how bad we are and some of our shots are truly comical. I once hit three straight tee shots into a pond and got so mad I nearly threw my golf club into the water. We're both 64.
So as Ernie was telling us about his trip he couldn't help but to apologize a bit and tell us his son paid for it and he wasn't some "big shot world traveler." I understood exactly what he was talking about. The fact is we put a few hundred dollars in a bank travel account each month and that's how we afford to travel.
Anyway, appreciate your thoughts on this topic.