I am overwhelmed with options and hoping this lovely community can help with some advice.
We are a family of 5, three teen girls (17 to 13) we have only been to to the UK, France, and Spain. We are planning a trip for this summer flying into Frankfurt and out of Milan- but those are all the plans we have made. We are thinking of spending 7 to 8 days in Germany or the surrounding areas and the rest of the time in Italy.
A little about us: We are an active family, like to bike, swim/surf, hike, and camp. My husband is an architect and I have an art background. We love good food & drink. We love to see the sights but don't need to see anything. For example, when we went to Paris with the girls, we saw the Eiffel Tower from afar on a bike tour but didn't go up the tower (or really get close). The best money we spent in Paris was a fantastic guided tour of the Lovre by an art historian. We would rather stay like a local in an Airbnb in a quant little town than stay in the middle of the city near a tourist attraction in a tony hotel (of course, unless staying in the middle of the city is the best thing to do). We would prefer to stay away from tourist places unless not seeing them is just a crime. For example, is seeing the Neuschwanstein Castle something we absolutely have to do? Some of the descriptions on here make it sound a little nightmarish.
My husband really wants to drive in Germany. So the plan is to rent a car to drive in Germany, pick it up in Frankfurt and drop it off in Munich or Salzberg and take a Nightjet to Venice (or maybe Florence or Milan. ). But we are not tied to that plan.
We are not the types that try to fit everything in either. We would rather stay in one place for a few days then go to three different places.
We love train travel and have mostly traveled by train in Europe (except some experience when renting a car to get to the English Countryside was the only option), so any advice on car rentals is appreciated.
Having a car, especially in Germany, opens up a lot of options.
Questions for the community:
1. Should we think of going to Belgium? Rick's description makes it sound dreamy and I have never been.
2. Should we think of going to Switzerland?
3. We love the outdoors, but unsure how much time the girls will really want to stay in say the Black Forest or other areas like that. We camp a lot so while staying in a cabin is great for a couple of nights, but making this a "camping in Europe" trip is not what we are looking for.
For Italy, we are thinking of staying at least 6 or 7 days in one place in Tuscany and taking day trips from there. Rome is really not on the list for this trip.
For Italy:
1. Any advice on whether Venice is really worth it given the tourist crush?
2. How many days should we plan for in Milan?
3. Are there any good bike tours in Italy that are not seven days or longer? We would love to do a 2 to 3-day trip.
Thanks, everyone!