Here is our proposed itinerary. (Note, I have been to Europe a few times, one of which was a 2.5 month backpacking trip in 1993). This is by car.
Days 1 and 2
Paris
Day 3
Paris to Frankfurt via train, arrive mid day, pick up car, drive to Rhine
Day4
Rhine River and Castles
Day 5
Romantic Road, Rothenburg, Dinkelsbuhl, stay in Munich that night...Oktoberfest (just a taste of it!)
Day 6
Dachau (short time there), south to Oberammergau, Fussen, Neuschwanstein, stay in ????? that night
this is where I am having difficulty (perhaps over ambitious). Could go one of two ways----straight to Venice, skipping the Alps----or trying to get to Gimmelwald and the Jungfrau Region (one day of sightseeing there), and then going to Venice.
Overly Ambitious Route:
Day 7
Innsbruck (probably) to Interlaken.
Day 8
Jungfrau 'circle' (up to the Schilthorn, back down to Interlaken)
Day 9
Long drive to Venice (can't seem to find a better way to do this. Mapquest says that drive time is 6 hours. REALLY did not want to spend a day in the car, but don't know what to do.
Day 10
Venice
Day 11 and 12
Cinque Terra
Day 13 and 14
Florence and Hill Towns
Day 15 and 16
Rome
I am taking my wife who has never been to Europe. So I want her to see a lot, and a good variety of scenery. We are going in the middle of September.
**I see that this is an ambitious trip, and would be better to take something out. I was thinking that perhaps that should be the Alps, since it has potential to be a wasted 2 days if the weather in the mountains is not clear for seeing much of anything. In that case, we would then just head from Munich to Venice.
I would love some thoughts and insights on how this might be planned better or re-routed.
Thank you for your help!