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10-Year Anniversary in Europe (or NYC/Boston/NE US)

I am looking to plan my wife's and my 10-year anniversary, and am strongly considering somewhere in Europe (but can still be persuaded to do something in the US). We would probably be looking at 8-full days somewhere (plus or minus a day). I am going to try to paint a picture of what we're like, what we like, and - despite probably being too meticulous - hope that some of you will have some good advice for us. The truth is, we're not in love with a single place in Europe - even though we have both been before (although not together) - and so I really would like to leave this wide open (and in no particular order!):

  • We have lived in the Rocky Mountains of Wyoming and Montana for a significant portion of our lives, and now live in the Blue Ridge Mountains of semi-rural SW Virginia. So, in short, we are not necessarily looking to "get away from it all". This doesn't mean we aren't looking for quaint, quieter locations. It just means that we are not driven by a deep need to leave behind the big city. Also, we love nature, and have done many beautiful hikes in the Rockies, but we'd prefer something we can't find here, rather than more natural beauty (at least natural beauty that is at the heart of a certain destination).
  • I speak Spanish, and we both are native English speakers. My wife knows a wee bit of French too. We're not limited by language, but it certainly does play a factor.
  • We aren't the types to plan every minute of a trip, but also aren't backpacking, hitchhiking thrill seekers (at least my wife isn't!).
  • We enjoy being together, doing "ordinary" things. We love good food, are very interested in history/culture/architecture, and enjoy the feeling of being in an experientially rich, special place. As a matter of illustration, we would be a Christmas cottage and not a palace if we were a house (not that we don't enjoy places like Versailles etc.).
  • We are on a budget, and are thrifty. We would completely content cooking in as often as we eat out. With that said, we definitely want options for eating out, and would probably love an evening at a vineyard tasting wine (as long as the folks are not snobby or pretentious - we like being foodies without the snobbery). -Totally interested in a quick stopover in Reykjavik (if using WOW air). -Would probably prefer to stay in one place, or at least make a single place our hub, with a few excursions thrown in.
  • Again, not intimidated by major cities like London or Paris, but equally interested in places like Provence or Catalonia.
  • We like quaint, cozy, and friendly - but not pseudo-friendly. We like trying to "blend in" with the locals, even though we know that's never entirely possible. I guess I mean that we're not camera toting, fanny pack wearing types, who demand to be treated like royalty.
  • We like Indian food, good wine and cheese, the Lord of the Rings and Sherlock Holmes. An ideal day - as framed in my mind, which currently has no idea where to go and is therefore posting in a travel forum - would probably look like waking up lazily (yet we are morning people, so...), enjoying breakfast, taking a stroll about before second breakfast, and then doing a bit more poking around before a satisfying lunch and siesta. However, the siesta could be swapped for a show of some sort, a museum (quirky is fun, but I loved the Louvre as a young man), or a stroll through quaint shops and markets. We would then enjoy a very long dinner - with good wine/beer (even whiskey!) - and then a leisurely stroll before retiring for the evening in a modest, yet romantic, apartment/hotel etc.

Okay, so, as you can see, I mostly ramble, and have struggled to present much coherent thought. I guess my main aim was to give you a flavor for who we are, and what we're looking for. I think followup posts could help narrow things down. And yes, we could still be persuaded to explore parts of the US that we have yet to see. Thank you so much in advance!

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I was floundering a bit too trying to figure out where the two of you might enjoy most in your less than ten day anniversary trip until I came to your 8th bulleted point. Everything in this musing said U.K. to me. London hits all of your main points, no shortage of Indian food, quirky museums, shows, poking around in interesting neighborhoods, leisure walks, etc. I would combine several days in London with some days in a beautiful medium sized village outside of London in the Cotswolds or Lake District.

Whatever the two of you decide, I'm sure you'll have a memorable 10th anniversary, congratulations!

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Thank you very much, Mona! When I inconspicuously texted my wife with a "random" question of her favorite city in Europe, she replied "London." She also, though, is fond of the idea of the Mediterranean; someplace like Barcelona, or the South of France is also of interest. This is still in the "surprise" phase, and may remain there until, oh I don't know, the day before we leave! :-D

Forgot to add that our anniversary is October 20, but we're not necessarily put off by cooler weather.

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I would agree that all of the cities mentioned are wonderful places to visit, period. However, depending on your level of thriftiness, I could make a case for the eastern US as well. Might I suggest driving to Baltimore/Chesapeake Bay for two days, then the short drive to Philadelphia for two days, then an Amtrak ride to Boston for three days, with one day spent on the return. Each of those cities offer excellent culinary delights, wonderful museums, history, nature, great venues for entertainment (especially music), and opportunities for scenic and informative walks. Chesapeake and North Beaches should still be warm enough for a walk in the water, while father north the leaves will be turning amazing shades of orange and red. Amtrak fares between Phil. and Boston are less than $70/pp, and although not nearly as scenic as travel through Europe, the trains are quite economical.

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Thanks for the counterpoint, Mark! We have definitely been considering a "Tour of the Northeast." If we end up deciding on crossing the Atlantic, we would consider making the domestic trip a family one and bring the kids.

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What time of the year is this?

I am going to vote for Spain! It's nice to know the language, though not a necessity as I have traveled a jillion places and I can't speak anything (except English obviously!).

I thought madrid was awesome, as is barcelona, and san Sebastian was amazing... just wander around and eat yummy things. You could do those in 8 days, day trip a bit (Toledo? Segovia? Cordoba? Bilbao?) or even cut it down to Madrid and San Sebastian...

I thought it was relatively cheap there as well.... now I do live in an expensive city, but like in Madrid about 15-20 of us were out a round of drinks for everyone was like $30. The food was awesome as well, I truly loved Spain!!!!

Kim

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What about Florence? It has an airport that you can fly to, if not, it is not that far from Rome or Venice. It has multiple day trips from hill towns, wine tours, to Venice.

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Thank you very much everyone for your thoughtful replies! We have watched some travel videos and loved what we saw of Bruges! Any thoughts there? Maybe I should start a post in the Belgium forum?

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Eight days, cutting it pretty short for a trip across the pond, imo. Your description sounds like us, so...

Have you been to Napa, Sonoma, Marin, San Francisco, etc? You could easily fill eight days doing slow, fast, wine, beer, all kinds of ethnic dining, country, city, a bit of everything. We love visiting that whole area most any time of year.

Another domestic idea - we did a Christmas trip to Sedona, AZ, Grand Canyon, overnight in Phoenix/Scottsdale area and that was pretty awesome, too. Lots of wineries, good food, a variety of options. I'd definitely do that trip in the cooler months.

We loved Boston too but given the proximity to where you live, that doesn't seem special enough for this trip. You could do that as a long weekend.

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Yes, I agree that 8 days is cutting it a bit short. We are excluding travel time, so we'd be looking at more like 10-11, or so. And, our desire is to stay in one place, rather than doing a "tour" of various places, as we've both done that in the past.

We actually just moved to the east coast, and NYC, Boston etc. are places that we've never been. At this point, we're leaning toward either (roughly) 2 days in Paris, take the Thalys to Bruges, and stay there for 4-5 days, and then Amsterdam for our last couple of days before flying home, OR 5-6 days in NYC (or add a couple of days to go farther NE). Like I said in our first post, we aren't looking to escape the big city, and like the idea of autumn in the NE, with good food and fun/exciting sites to see. Relaxation for us is probably more about good food, no "schedule", not having to tend to kiddos etc. rather than serene vistas and laid back local life (again, not that we wouldn't be interested in that; it's just not the main driving impetus, with us already living rural in our day-to-day...).

Thanks!

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Am I missing the time of year?

My recommendation would be affected by the dates you're considering.

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Brad, in the OPs second response he says their anniversary is in October so I'm assuming this is the month they'll be traveling.

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Okay, well we bumped into an unexpectedly amazing deal ($380 from BWI...um, yeah...), and so booked our flight for...Belgium! We are looking at Bruges, but obviously have some time to narrow all of that down and make the necessary arrangements. Who knows, we might even take a train to Paris for our actual anniversary!

Anyway, thanks again for all of your input, and I hope to see some of you in the Belgium/France/Holland forums as we plan our trip!

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I'd spend a few nights in Paris. Keep your trip to two locations.

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I love Brugge, it is where I proposed to my wife! Brussels is only good for the main square. You can day trip there from Brugge, it is about an hour. Spend a couple of days in Paris and two in Amsterdam. four days is too much for Brugge.

Land go straight to Paris, 3 Nights,
Amsterdam, 2 Nights,
Brugge 3 Nights Fly Home.

Brugge is an hour and a half from the airport.

Or you could drop Paris and divide your time between Brugge and Amsterdam.

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Two things:

Firstly, thank you all again for your help, and your continued insight. Would it now be most appropriate to move this to another, more specific, forum, or can it stay here if we are still trying to connect the itinerary dots between Belgium-France-Holland?

Secondly, I really appreciate all of your posts. I would kindly ask that - as you're able - you qualify your recommendations. It is all well and good to get opinions like, "3 days in Bruges, 2 in Amsterdam..." etc. etc., but knowing the why would be even better. Is staying in Belgium for the entire 9 days (that's what it is going to be now - and more like 10 if counting half days) absolutely too much; especially with the glories of Paris and Amsterdam so close by? If we are looking for less mainstream, would Amsterdam be better than Paris? Where should we be for our actual anniversary day?

I hope this has been a help to others as well, and that beyond our simple opinions and predilections we can form a sort of conversational tapestry that helps us think beyond the common channels of forum communication. Thank you again!