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Guided tour for seniors

I'm searching for a tour in the fall for my dad who will be 80 in November. He's an experienced traveler and very knowledgeable about European history but I'm concerned for his safety and well being if he travels alone for two weeks. I'm worried he'll get lost or be taken advantage of by merchants or others. He's reluctant to take a guided tour and be tied down to a tight itinerary instead of freely diving into deep European history around the UK. Is there a tour that would suit someone who knows how to travel but needs a little "supervision" like this? I see Rick offers England tours. Has anyone taken them and felt that there was enough freedom to enjoy different sights while given a rich experience by the guide? I appreciate any help.

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He sounds like a great candidate for one of Rick’s “My Way” tours. It includes hotels, transportation between cities/countries, and a tour manager who assists in suggestions for things to do and places to dine. He also might want to look at road scholar tours which focus on history and culture as do some of the Smithsonian tours. Good luck!

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Even on a tour, people can get lost temporarily or taken advantage of by pickpockets (less likely to be taken advantage of by merchants). There is free time, even on tours. And exploring and getting lost is part of the adventure. If he’s an experienced traveler, he knows how to find his way back to his hotel. He can always grab a hotel business card and hop in a taxi and be driven back to the hotel. Having a cell phone with data, and knowledge of how to use it, is the most useful tool.

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Interesting question. I have several observations, probably not a good answer to your (understandable) concerns.

1) Is your dad on-board with your help? I ask, not to be offensive, but because I have dealt with an elderly (way over 80) mother for 20 years who will "do it her way!!!!" whether it is the most rational and safe approach or not. I have learned there is nothing (literally) I can do to help, or suggest. I sincerely hope you are not facing that mindset! (Rhetorical question, no answer expected. just something I wouldn’t necessarily have recognized before confronting it.)

2) Fall 2025 tours may be fully booked at this point.

3) Where does you dad wish to visit? Does he wish to focus on a particular historical era or interest - for example, Industrial Revolution England, Tudor England, Roman Britain, etc. It may be difficult to find a tour catering to a general audience that would include specific interests (if he has such specialized interests). Perhaps a university sponsored tour would fit the bill - or I have noticed that Road Scholar has a WWII lecture series in Oxford. No personal experience with the latter, and no luck in identifying the former when I've looked.

4) Depending on what your dad wishes to explore, it may be possible to use taxi services or public bus from a central hub to reach more out of the way sites. This can take a lot of research and effort. I also always have a plan B if my service or bus doesn't show. I can't say this is a relaxing way to travel.

Sometimes a day tour from a city will include sites of interest. There might not be all the time a traveler would like at a given site, but these tours can be quite pleasant and well-run. I can personally recommend Mountain Goat Tours in the north of England. Rabbies also gets good reviews although I haven't used them personally.

5) Good advice above about his ability and comfort in using Google Maps, CityMapper, National Rail app, Uber, etc. If he is tech savvy, things are easier. I would be surprised if merchants "took advantage", pickpockets in London - be wary. Does he have typical "city smarts"? Comfortable in finding alternative solutions to common travel problems like transport disruptions - or not familiar with thinking through the situation? Would he be comfortable on a London Tube or public bus?

6) Would he be interested in a "deep dive" into history primarily in London or York, for example? One base or two, incredible number of museums in London - all eras, York also has terrific history options. Historical sites in addition to museums. One hotel per city, good public transport, walk or taxi, back to hotel quickly if tired, etc. Lots of easy day trips out of London especially if he is comfortable with train travel. The day trip companies mentioned above operate out of those cities. Rabbies - London, Mountain Goat - York.

Best of luck in your search!

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I've done tours in England with Rick Steves, Road Scholar and Mark Seymour. There are no Rick Steves My Way tours in England.

The Rick Steves tours I've done are Best of England and Best of Southern England. Although there are often a few hours of free time in various cities/towns along the way, there is not really enough time to "enjoy different sights". You are either with the guide or not. For instance, on the free afternoon in Keswick I walked up to the Castlerigg Stone Circle which was not included on my particular tour. I was on my own both to get there and back as well as seeing the site. I had planned this ahead, knew the walking route, had done my prep for educating myself about the site. The guides are very knowledgeable and do provide a "rich" experience.

The Road Scholar tours typically have less free time than Rick's tours so you are with the guide/group all the time. I enjoy the educational aspect of the Road Scholar tours but in my experience the other group members are a bit more inexperienced/needy as travelers so there is even less going "off piste" with them. Road Scholar does have some "Living and Learning Adventures" that are where you live in an independent apartment set up and attend language or other classes daily. There is apparently a lot of free time and you are lightly supervised. These programs are usually 6 weeks long. They do not have any in UK.

I've also done 3 Mark Seymour tours, Northern England, Orkney/Shetland and one in France (Loire/Brittany/Normandy). There is a bit more free time with Mark's tours BUT depending on where you are there may not be transit to different areas. For instance on the Orkney/Shetland tour we would get to a site, he would orient us, give us a talk on history/culture/etc, then we were on our own to explore the area for a couple of hours BUT the sites were often remote so you needed to just be in that area. (Does that make sense??). His tour members are fairly strong and independent travelers. He and his guides have very deep knowledge of wherever they are touring.

To me Mark's tours are a bit more physically active than Rick's or Road Scholar tours. I'm doing Orkney and Shetland again this summer as I feel like I am possibly getting to the point where I would not be able to crawl in/out of chambered cairns. The ones we visited before, you did not have to go in to the cairn but I have terrible FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) so I had to go in to every thing, lol. I'm 75 and am working on getting up and down off the ground, lol but I might not be able to do this when I'm 80.

I have another Mark tour for this Fall (SW France), 1 of his tours booked for next year and 2 for 2027. They suit me but I also do a couple of weeks of independent travel before and after his tours for my individual time.

"Is there a tour that would suit someone who knows how to travel but needs a little "supervision" like this?"

So....for the 3 companies I have traveled with, I would say none meet this criterion. With all 3 you are paying for the services of a guide and I generally want to milk the most out of the guide I can, lol.

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Chris, what if instead of a "tour," you/he take the approach of having one driver (and potentially a guide) who takes him where he would like to go each day (but with some flexibility). In some places, since your dad is very knowledgeable about UK history (and likely the sites/places) he would like to see, maybe all he would need is a driver for those days. But he might also enjoy the "companionship" of a local also knowledgeable about the history and the places he will see...and someone who could also delight him by showing him much more than he had thought...some nice surprises along the way.

Okay.....great idea...but how do/does you/he pull that off?

If he is staying in one primary hotel (ask the concierge what could be arranged along those lines), or on the other extreme, companies like TCS World Travel can put together a turn-key itinerary for him (and that company has fabulous connections/guides (we took one of their multi-country/multi-continent group journeys, and it was incredible...local guides fantastic...some who would work only with TCS)....but that will likely cost more. But, at age 80, and if he has the financial resources, what the heck? Might be his last overseas journey...so maybe he will be all for making truly extra special. Travel agents (if they are really good, experienced, and connected) could also likely (in conjunction with local concierge staffs) piece together a nice journey for him. But, if you work with ONE primary contact, I think there will likely be a better point of contact for them to "watch after him" (but, better to say "that he continues to experience flexible excellence tailored to his needs" (giggle).

If you go on the TCS World Travel site, you will first see just group tours....but call and ask to talk with the custom travel team....but only call if your dad has the extra resources to splurge. Otherwise, I would recommend the hotel concierge (if he is staying in a higher-level hotel) or a travel agent. But, even very local small bed and breakfasts can provide some really good recommendations. Different country, but a B&B in Doolin (when I asked) recommended a private driver for us several years ago, and he was our driver for many segments in Ireland.....when we had some two-night stays and did not need a driver, no problem, he just took other fares. But, he really enriched our trip by having a local who knew his way around, told us a lot about what we saw, surprised us with some extra sites we had not thought about, etc. He became a friend of sorts (even visited us a few years later when he was in the US).

Many ways to "skin the cat."

If he is "reluctant" as you say to take a group tour, if pushed or encouraged to take one, he could either be delighted and surprised OR he could come home with a major case of "I told you so!!!" Flexible w/ private such that if he needs to use the bathroom at 8:30 am vs. if on a group that tour leaves at 8:15am...well. If he gets tired at 4:00 in the afternoon and just needs a break, but that's the time the group will be hoofing it thru a major site, well...............not as flexible.

Do not know if any of this helps, but maybe.

And, if you have the resources, maybe "surprise him" (but make sure he is okay with it), but offering to arrange such and such for him as a special gift, with the caveat that HE will be able to direct the driver/guide/whatever on the ground and have more fluidity than on a more rigid "set" group tour.

And, while he might really bond with and adore fellow group tour members, if he took that approach, it could also frustrate him if they did not have the same intellectual curiosity/interest about the historical elements and if they had characteristics that drove him nuts....EACH day of this special trip.

Good luck, and congrats to him for being interested, and I hope he finds the perfect way for him to truly enjoy and be enriched by his travels.

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Do you know any digital nomads who would enjoy an expenses paid trip to the UK? They would simply follow him around, help where needed and keep him out of trouble. Could be a great gig for a grandchild/niece/nephew.

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Rabbie's Tours mentioned above might be what your looking for.

They provide transportation with a driver on a set itinerary. You are on your own to explore. Accommodations are not included, but can be booked through Rabbie's. So your Dad would be picked up every morning at his hotel and dropped off at the end of the touring day.

Here a couple of recent posts on Rabbie's Tours.

Questions London to Edinburgh

Review of Northern England Tour

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Thank you for all of your valuable responses. To answer some questions:
ORDtraveler- Yes, dad is on board with my help. I offered to do some basic research to find a tour that offers basic supervision without requiring the travelers to be on tight schedules like a school group. Dad is flexible and curious but doesn't want handholding the whole time.
Dad is into Tudor England and Roman Britain. He also loves all the typical sights despite visiting them a few times since the 1970s. He never tires of the history. He doesn't have good city smarts or location awareness. This is where someone will need to offer basic guidance or a reminder of the schedule. But once he's at a location, he's enjoying himself and diving into the histories.
I think it will be worth me looking into the Road Scholars tours. I saw them in my Google searches. Thank you for all your advice.

Mary- Thank you for the Seymour tours suggestion. It looks like a good option as well.

Pam- great information and advice. Very helpful.

Maggie- Also great information. I'll look up TCS. It might be a good option. I know that my situation is unique since dad has self-awareness and the knowledge to enjoy every minute of a tour but refuses to be tightly connected to a group and itinerary the entire length of the trip. But maybe he's discounting the possibility of hitting it off with other like-minded travelers.

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Chris - This isn't a tour recommendation, but if your dad enjoys lectures, I wanted to recommend Jennifer Paxton's series on English and Celtic history that Great Courses produces. (There are several different courses available.)

We just finished her series "England: From the Fall of Rome to the Norman Conquest". The background enhanced my recent visit to the north of England - not my first trip to the area and I have studied the history and region. I initially thought 24 30-minute lectures would be over-kill, but found that not the case. I'm looking forward to some of her other courses.

My library system has many Great Courses available on DVD - much cheaper than purchasing. We can also access via Kanopy (again thru the library).

Your dad sounds like my kind of traveler!!

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Chris, my Mom was an English teacher & loved England more than any place in the world. I planned a surprise trip for her with lots of time for her choices. WE flew in to Manchester and I rented a car and we drove to York, then towards Harriot country> We also went to the Lake District & to Haworth. I was mainly her driver and she loved seeing Wordsworth's cottage, Beatrix Potter's Hilltop House, the parsonage where the Bronte sisters lived, the places "All Creatures Great & Small" was filmed and Thirsk. We had tea at 'elevenses' almost every day and ate in pubs. It wasn't a long trip, maybe 10 days and she was SO happy. We really connected that trip in a way we never had before. If you ever have the chance to take your Dad on a similar trip be sure to do it. And, BTW, all of her postcards back home said how great I was at driving on the 'wrong' side of the road. I think she enjoyed that most of all.

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What a wonderful summary of your trip together. Your mom sounds like my dad. I'll have to send him your trip summary here and see what he says. Thank you for chiming in.