This is part 1. Part 2 is the Dordogne Region of France, and I hope to have it up soon. Call this portion of the trip a social experiment. There was a certain amount of angst on my part leading up the trip as our very good friends from the Philadelphia area asked if we were interested in going with them. My wife Carla: forever the social butterfly and always of the attitude of the more the merrier, immediately said yes. Let’s just say I’m not a social butterfly and while our two travel buddies, Phil and Lorrie are our very close friends, I’m of the opinion that I manage to keep friends because they don’t see me 24/7.
This was also our first post-retirement trip and between the two countries we were away from home for 20 days, which is the longest trip we’ve ever taken. The four of us spent 10 days in Portugal together before they headed home, and we continued to France which was what we had originally planned before Portugal was added. Travelling with another couple worked out better than I had anticipated, but as close friends as they are, 10 days was enough...for me. To summarize a conversation with Carla once we were in France, she stated that she missed having people to socialize with every evening after a day of touring, while I said that I enjoyed not having to socialize every evening after a day of touring. What did work was that they were perfectly happy for us to do the advance planning and have an itinerary each day, as we did have similar interests and wanted to see the same things. What was tough were two distinct methods for approaching the day. Mine is to walk and explore from morning to evening, skipping daytime meals and bathroom breaks because we can do those things at home, while theirs is a more relaxed pace with frequent stops for coffee, snacks, bathroom breaks, meals, drinks, sitting, and maybe try to squeeze in an hour or two of exploring in between. It was frustrating for me at times, but I was under strict orders to play nice. As for socializing in the evening, while Carla would frown at me, everyone appeared/tolerated to be OK with me disappearing once I was peopled out at the end of the day. At the end, we are still close, and maybe we’ll do it again because we understand each other’s travel styles now. Phil mentioned while it was good, he would have liked more breaks. I, on the other hand, am not sure how we could have possibly fit in more breaks.
The remaining TR is day-by-day in the comments section.