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London and Paris with Teenage Grandson Trip Report

Thanks to all your help and a lot of planning our journey was very successful. We spent one week in London and another in Paris. A couple of things we learned during this time with our 17 years old grandson (GS).

  1. We had set up to give him a set amount of money daily for meals. If he didn’t spend it all, it was his to keep and do with what he wanted. This worked well most of the time.

  2. We should have discussed technology. If you go with an American teenager discuss this the first day and stick with it. I must tell you I got sick of looking up at pre-dinner and various other times (ex. Hampton Court) to see him playing with his XXX games.

  3. The London Pass was helpful. He selected 10 things to do in both cities. Don’t expect your teenager to research what he wants to see in the selected museums, palaces etc. I learned to go with the flow.

  4. Think about the amount of time to spend with each activity. My husband would still be in our first museum. GS would spend an hour and be ready to go. I was the middle ground and the mediator. Set a specific medium time and a place to meet. This worked out fine AFTER our first few days. Then negotiate if need be.

  5. Our GS had never really traveled so EVERYTHING was a new experience. At times, I think he was overwhelmed but nonchalant. When asked if anything surprised him, he would respond “No “. I wanted to say “really”. We learned to slow down. We would discuss the next day events and have him say “yes” or “no”. Several things were non-negotiable as we had made reservations. If there was something that the semi-adults wanted to do, that became the first thing done. All in all it worked out well. He was great about going along with everything.

  6. We walked between 16,000 and 22,000 steps a day. We all needed a break to set our tired feet up.
    Now the specifics:

LONDON: We stayed in an Air BNB close to South Kensington and Sloane Square. It was a perfect location. We had a two-bedroom apartment. We bought an Oyster card for zone 1 and a London Pass.

Sunday- After an early arrival, we went to the apartment, went grocery shopping and off we went. GS discovered Pret A Manger, which helped with his daily “allowance”. We spent the afternoon at Buckingham Palace (the state rooms) and the Royal Mews. We ate dinner early and GS ordered his first ale and had fish and chips in a real British Pub at the Hoop and Toy. We collapsed early but it was a great start!

Monday- We experienced the Tower of London and the On/Off bus. We saw a huge smile on GS face when he rode by Big Ben, Parliament and Westminster Abbey. I think he finally realized he was in England. After dinner at a good Thai restaurant (Thai Square in South Kensington) we walked to Harrods. Since it was raining when we left, GS got his first London taxi ride.

Tuesday- After checking with the weather report we decided to go for it. We went to one of my favorite places, HAMPTON COURT. Last time we went it was in winter and the gardens were not in bloom. Not this time, the gardens were beautiful. GS’s dinner request was Hard Rock Café-London. That worked for us. After dinner we walked around Hyde Park and the Wellington Arch.

Wednesday- A rainy day in London Town…. Due to the rain we did indoor things. We spent the morning in St. Paul’s. We took the tour, which was interesting. After a quick lunch we walked to the Tate Modern over the Millennium Bridge. Dinner was at a great old pub “Ye Olde Cheshire Cheese” which has been in business since just after the Great Fire”.

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Thursday-This was our BIG day. I knew I had planned too much. We spent the morning in Westminster Abbey. Again, we took a tour. After doing both great churches, GS reported that St. Paul’s was his favorite. We had lunch in the crypt and roamed on to our Parliament Tour. We had reservations and it was really worth it. Our guide was great and was nice for GS to be able to compare and contrast with our American system. We were to do other things but we all needed quiet time so off we went. Pizza close to home was a welcome sight.

Friday- We started out at the Churchill War Rooms, Trafaglar Square, and on to the London Eye. We had made reservations the previous day for the Eye. GS wanted the experience but is scared of heights. Not an enjoyable experience and an expensive lesson to learn. (We will NOT be doing the Eiffel Tower). GS decided a quiet evening to recoup was needed. Off hubby and I went to the Saatchi Gallery and out to dinner at a great Mediterranean restaurant (CERU in South Kensington). I highly recommend this place. It was nice to have some grown up time and I know GS enjoyed his time away from us also.

Saturday-It was my choice for the day. We went to Little Venice, took a canal boat ride on the Regent’s Canal and then lunch and checking things out at Camden Locks. Then, it was off to the Britsh Library for the Beatles lyrics, the Magna Carta, and beautiful maps. We really enjoyed the whole experience. That night we walked to the Royal Albert Hall and GS experienced his first symphony. I won’t say he enjoyed it but he sucked it up. He had okayed going to it.

Sunday-Our last day in London. The British Museum was a great last museum to check out. Dinner was at Covent Gardens and then the theater. We went to “The Play That Goes Wrong”. It was a perfect way to introduce GS to the theater. It was quite a farce that had us all laughing.

PARIS: We took the Eurostar from London to Paris. What an easy and fast way to go. We had no problems until we reached Gare Du Nord. We had difficulty finding a photo booth that worked for our metro pass. As we were obtaining our photo, a man came by and asked us a question. I know what you are thinking. Yep, we were stupid and off went hubby’s camera and case. Stupid tourists. We didn’t even realize until surrounded by French security yelling at us. The security officer secured our bag and gave it back to us. My hubby said that one of the guys doing the yelling was actually one of the guys that took our bag. It was scary to begin with, then yelled at by 4-5 security officers didn’t help. Needless to say, a big lesson learned and I am glad not to return there. I have been to Paris five times and have never had an issue. Just glad that it is over! We stayed in a charming two bedroom apartment in the Tocadero area. We have never been to this area before. We were 2 blocks from the metro and the views of the Eifel Tower were amazing.

Tuesday: We got up early and took in Notre Dame and Sainte Chapelle before crowds set in. After dropping off GS for his quiet time and nap hubby and I walked to the Eiffel Tower, had lunch at the little street vendors next to Tower and went to the Musee de quasi Branly. What a wonderful museum. We did get a Paris Museum Pass for two days and just decided to try this museum out. It was a Tuesday and it was a national holiday, many places were closed. This museum fit the bill. We could walk to it, used the Museum Pass and it was fabulous. Highly recommend! We spent the final portion of the day at Montemarte for dinner and that wonderful view.

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Wednesday: This day was dedicated to the Louvre and Arch de Triomphe. Hubby and GS spent four hours at the Louvre and then needed a nap. In the early evening we went to dinner by the Arch. I had not gone to the top of the Arch before and it was a great experience. The elevator was down so up the steps we went, my poor aching knees but it was beautiful. Early to bed since we were taking an early train to Normandy the next day.

Thursday-We booked a day trip to Normandy through Normandy 1st. Our guide, Alan, was exceptional. If you are looking for a historical tour this one is for you. We took the 7:00 train from St. Lazare Station in Paris to Carenton. Alan picked us up from the station and we spent the entire day exploring the area. The Normandy area is beautiful and being on the beaches was emotional and awe inspiring. Alan dropped us back at the rail station and we were back in Paris by 8:45. Truly a fabulous day and one the GS enjoyed.

Friday- We had a 10:00 reservation for the Catacombs. We arrived around 9:45 and were so glad we had spent the extra for the reservation. The line was already around the block. We got right in. This was a place I never would have selected but it was on GS’s list. It was interesting and beautiful in a macabre sort of way. After lunch we traveled to the Pantheon. Again, this is a place I had not been and did not understand the significance until we took the audio tour. It was beautiful. We walked over to the Sorbonne to take a picture. My husband’s father had gone to school there when WW II started. Hubby took a beautiful picture of the fountains in front of the school to send off to siblings. It was definitely time for our daily siesta. Dinner was at the Tribeca on Rue Cler. The street was very quiet and the restaurant was good. We needed a break from French cooking.

Saturday-Our last full day in Paris so what do we do, but go to Versailles. We had a purpose-the fountains! We had wanted to see the fountains every time we come to Paris but it never worked out-either the wrong days or rainy weather. It was a picture perfect day. However, we did not follow our basic rule-go early. I thought since we had tickets it would not take so long. Oh no, it took us from 12:45 to 3:15 just to get through security. We had now had a new strategy. GS went into the palace and hubby and I went to the gardens. It was magnificent, truly majestic. Probably my favorite thing we did in Paris this time around. All in all it was a great way to end the trip. Dinner was around the corner from our place in the Trocadero. It was a good little crepearia. One last view of the twinkling Eiffel Tower, then off to pack.

Sunday-We left CDG with no hassle and made the hand off of GS back to Mom. It was a great trip but glad to back home. Again, thanks for ALL help!

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Sounds like an amazing trip and one that your grandson will cherish forever...

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Some people would have squeezed in another 4 cities in that time - and remembered nothing of any of them! Sensible planning.

A couple of points to note.

Before anyone starts querying a 17 year old drinking ale in a London pub, it is legal under the conditions described. There has to be a meal and he has to be accompanied by adults who must purchase the drink. Applies to beer, wine and cider in quantities that would be reasonable with the meal. Nothing stronger and nothing after the food ends. Otherwise the age limit is 18.

NEVER let go of bags in Paris or London (or many other places). If you absentmindedly walk away you can cause a security alert that shuts the area down.

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Thanks for taking the time to post this. It sounds like, despite various "issues," everyone had a great trip in the end!

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It sounds like overall you all had a great trip, and even though grandson may not have been exactly enthused about some of the itinerary, I imagine that he will look back on all of it fondly. What a lucky young man to get to go on such a trip with his grandparents! Thank you for sharing.

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What a wonderful report. Thank you for sharing. We have 2 grandsons and are waiting till they are old enough to travel with us, so good points to keep in mind.

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This reminds me of the first time I took my nephews (20-ish) to Eutope. It seems to be against the "rules" for guys that age to express enthusiasm. They must maintain nonchalance at all times! However now, 5 years later, I can assure you that they really were impressed, absorbed the experiences, and learned a lot from the trip. And they have now matured enough to rhapsodize over memories of Venice.
The only thing different in my experience, was that my guys could out-museum me. I practically had to drag them out of the British Museum. At any rate, I firmly believe that one of the best things any of us can do for our younger relatives is to expose them to other cultures.

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Where did you buy your tickets for the catacombs? My wife and I are going in a couple of weeks and want to get in. Thanks.

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We bought our catacombs tickets just a couple of weeks ahead. We went on the official website to buy them. The tickets are more expensive but well worth it when you consider the loooooong line. Enjoy