i realize this isn't entirely a question about European travel, but it is because it is for me because it is the first leg of our trip. so...
what is the best way to get from manhattan to jfk? i've done a lot of googling, and have discovered AirTrain, and my ex-New Yorker husband does not trust trains/subways to get him to the airport. though, sadly, he does not trust NYC traffic, either, so he's torn between said AirTrain and a cab and feels good about neither. here's our situation...
we live 70 miles outside of new york. because of the timing of our flight and the timing of bus service, we're coming into new york the night BEFORE our flight and staying in a hotel (that i booked based on an expedia sale for a very reasonable amount of money for NYC). our flight leaves JFK at 5:45 pm the next day, and we plan to have dinner with friends, sleep, get up, have a leisurely lunch, perhaps do something fun for a few hours (see additional question below) and then head out to JFK. we're on an 8 hour flight to dublin, with a two hour layover, and then on to London, so we REALLY don't want to be sitting in an airport for any longer than we need to be. we were thinking of leaving for the airport at 2:30-ish for a 5:45 flight.
additional question: what to do in NYC for four hours with a backpack? any ideas? we realize we could leave it at the hotel, but that would require additional transportation--and it takes an act of god or a LOT of walking to be transported in NYC!