Recently returned from this tour.
1. Hotels: Paris- Hotel Lenox Montparnasse; Amboise- Hotel Chaptal; Lyon- Hotel Mercure; Annecy- Allobroges Park Hotel; Avignon- Hotel Le Cloitre St. Louis Avignon; Nice- Hotel Aston La Scala
1A- Paris- Hotel was nice. Loved that the balcony doors could be opened for fresh air; good breakfast; location was great (laundromat, grocery, fruit store all within the same block; easy walk to metro and restaurants). Street could be noisy, but with doors closed it was nice and quiet. Small fridge in room, if I am remembering correctly.
Amboise- location was great- easy walk to everything. Our room looked out on the roof, but we weren't there to spend a lot of time in the hotel so we didn't care. I didn't like that the CO2 levels got above 3000 every time we closed the windows, so I had to keep airing out the room. Great breakfast.
Lyon- most problematic room. AC kept making weird noises, internet access was not available (hotel wi-fi not working); location not great. We were close to the expensive new shops but a longer walk from the old town where we wanted to explore. Also, windows didn't open (big negative for us). Small fridge in room.
Annecy- Nice large room- no fridge. Another room with high CO2 readings, but the windows opened, so that was okay. Weak shower pressure. Good location and good breakfast.
Avignon- this was the wildest hotel we stayed in. Looked like an old monastery or something. Kept getting lost in the hotel! Super large room (though ours had a spiral staircase to go downstairs to the bathroom which was a bit of a pain). AC couldn't keep up with the size of the room. Fridge in room. Pool on roof. Nice breakfast.
Nice- Best breakfast of all the hotels. Modern, lots of staff, typical elevators (large, compared to all the other ones). Windows opened, but again, we were facing a wall and the roof, so not a great view. No fridge. Only hotel where they made it clear you were NOT allowed to bring food back to your room from breakfast (but when they saw our masks they gave us a tray and let us take our meal to our room- super nice of them).
For me, I just reminded myself that we were in France and that what I was looking forward to had nothing to do with the hotel rooms. As long as we had a clean, safe place to sleep at night, that was the important thing. Even the smaller or funkier places had their own charms, and they all contributed to an interesting experience. I don't think I actually would have enjoyed it as much if we were staying in traditional American style hotels!
I think we left between 8:00 and 9:00 most traveling days.
In our particular group, we didn't notice people doing much together, other than the organized activities. For example, our guide arranged a picnic when we went to Pont du Gard and most people gathered by the river and ate together. There were a few other times he organized activities and I think about half the group attended, maybe. But other than that, I never noticed people really doing much together. Sometimes, if we ended up in the same general area, people would come join each other (for example, while touring a castle, some of us ended up in the garden having lunch at the same time, and we shared a table). But that was coincidental and not planned.
For the actual being on your own each day- I'm pretty positive everyone did their own thing (I could tell from how they talked about what they did when we all joined up on the bus or when we were making small talk at rest stops).
Hope some of this is helpful.