Here are some books that might help:
Almost French: Love And A New Life In Paris by Sarah Turnbull.
Sixty Million Frenchmen Can't Be Wrong by Jean-Benoit Nadeau and Julie Barlow.
French or Foe?: Getting the Most Out of Visiting, Living and Working in France by Polly Platt.
Savoir Flair: 211 Tips for enjoying France and the French by Polly Platt.
I've read the first two books, and they are both quite good. The first is a woman's account of moving to Paris to be with a man. The second book is an interesting analysis of the French.
As for the third and fourth books, I haven't read them, although Savoir Flair is in my short stack.
I've had some great times in Paris, and I hope to return again some day armed with better language skills and cultural understanding.
Good luck!