I will be in Germany from 9/25 through 10/5 (flying back 10/6), so about 10 days. I will be traveling/staying with a friend who lives outside of Mannheim. I did visit last September and we visited Heidelburg, Rudesheim, Paris, London, Munich, Dinkelsbuhl, Phreimd, and Prauge. Since this trip will be shorter, we are not planning on leaving Germany. We want to go to Berlin for a few days. I would like to go back and explore around the Rhine or the Mosel and would like to visit the cathedral in Cologne. We would also like to go to the Black Forest and perhaps a thermal bath in Baden Baden. My friend has a car, so driving is not an issue. However, if we go to Berlin, we would take the train. We are interested in wine and live music and while I want to do enough planning to not be "stuck" we do want to have the availability to go with what sounds good!
So, a couple of questions:
Any suggestions for day trips from Mannheim?
Is it feasible to do Cologne as a day trip (it looks like it is about 3 hours each way, so probably not unless there really is not enough to see in Cologne). If we cannot do Cologne as a day trip would we want to stay there or would it be better to stay along the Rhine and day trip from there?
Are there better places to visit than Cologne that are just a day trip from Mannheim?
Knowing that the train to Berlin is 5 hours, would 3 nights be enough time there for a good overview? Or should we plan on 4?
I have heard that Baden Baden isn't the best place to stay in the Black Forest. If we are staying for just one night, what would be good? I have read that Frieburg is better for student nightlife, but we are in our mid thirties, so we are not really looking for college hangouts.
Any thoughts or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!