Hello! We'll be going on a month-long trip to England in May. According to the various books, shorts are more of a no-no for female tourists as far as visiting cathedrals and churches, and capris are suggested instead. I am 54 years old. Being that I don't like capris, but want to wear something more casual (should the weather cooperate!) would a decent skort be okay to wear instead? I'm talking about something at knee-length in a nice fabric (denim of black), and I'd wear a pair of Chaco sandals with it. Thanks, in advance, for any suggestions on this topic!
I think that would be fine, Leslie. I didn't notice any concern about how people were dressed. (Of course, it was raining most of the time I was there.) And a knee-length skort is pretty modest, anyway. Sandals are fine, too. Even when attending a church service, people were dressed pretty much the same as they would at home - a whole range of attire.
A skort would be fine, but you might find long slacks to be more comfortable. It is rarely hot in May.
I can't give fashion advice (I had to google for what a "skort" is). But since you refer to visiting churches/cathedrals as a tourist, I suspect that will mostly mean Church of England places and they have a pretty relaxed dress code - certainly not enforced like the Roman Catholic churches in Italy. "Respectful" is the word and shorts would be fine. You might want to change if you are actually attending a service, but even then the idea of "sunday best" has largely gone in the CofE (as, indeed, have most of the congregants).
Thank you, ever so much, for your replies!!! I'll leave the skort at home and plan on my slacks and one skirt (ankle-length). I don't want to be rude towards any attendees at churches by violating possible (un-written) dress codes! If it should get hot (ooooooh, wouldn't that be nice), we'll support the British clothing retailers and buy what we need! I sure appreciate your kind answers :)
Yes, serious dress codes for churches are more a phenomenon in Catholic or Orthodox countries. I doubt anybody will be too shocked if you wear knee length shorts in an Anglican church.
I agree with my fellow UK residents. My only concern is if you don't like the red skin and goose pimples of being in the cold. I don't think anybody else will mind. In fact, some of us rather enjoy watching North Americans and Aussies wandering around in shorts before we think it warm enough. Come on down!!
Hah! One of the main reasons I go to England is to watch you nutty guys (as opposed to the Scots and Welsh who have a lick of sense) standing around shivering in the winter chomping on ice cream.
I think your choices of attire sound fine, as far as being respectful and appropriate are concerned. But I have to agree with the other posters who say it is likely to be chilly. I have never been warm in England in May. I've never been truly hot in June, July, or August, either. But for all I know, it could change this year. And regarding the comment about ice cream, if ice cream isn't eaten while it's cold out in England, it would never be eaten at all. Can't have that.
Skorts = culottes over here. Sounds more elegant?
Are you talking about real ice cream or that soft-serve stuff (there can't possibly be any real cream in that) with the cadbury flake stuck in it? If the latter, I still don't get why anyone eats that ever.
I was at Gatwick airport in London yesterday and standing in the blowing wind at North Terminal waiting for the transit to South - blowing east wind at 20 mph, minus 3 Celsius, was a man wearing thin shorts and a T-shirt - and yellow flip flops. Picture it, people. He had a patch on his shorts identifying him as an Aussie. We were in hat and gloves, and a Lands End red winter coat. We were cold.
Ah, but, Nigel, think how happy that brief time in the cold will make him: -If he turns it into a good story about arriving near-naked in the cold, he'll get a beer bought for him in pubs all over the UK. -He'll never again question his ancestors' decision to leave Merrie Olde England and will be perfectly happy living Down Under. -During heat waves in Australia, when others complain about the heat, he'll say, "Better than England, mates. Better than England."
Leslie ,after 4 visits to London, 3 of which were in July or August, at no time did I need to wear shorts, cause it was never "hot", it rained all four times, and the few days it didn't rain, it was not warmer then say , 72 or so . ( the trip in March was positively cold, sleety and windy). Thats not to say you will definately not encounter some nice weather, they have even had "heat waves" in England, but the likelyhood of needing to pack hot weather gear is pretty small.
"One of the main reasons I go to England is to watch you nutty guys (as opposed to the Scots and Welsh who have a lick of sense) standing around shivering in the winter chomping on ice cream." My Swiss wife always says that summer is a state of mind in the British Isles - saddles in early May is what sets her off...