Gail, i think the reason u have not received an answer y et, is your headline ... the "regulars" see it and groan, oh no, not another person we have to tell the sad news to, that they refuse to hear... so they don't even open up the thread. I almost didn't but glad I did, because I see you are open to reconsideration.
You are RIGHT -- everything is geared to April to September. February is possibly THE worst month of the year, weather-wise. April of course has flowers, and green, and Easter and sunshine... If you REALLY want to see Greece in all its glory, you should consider MAY ... MAY is Greece's Heaven. But if not possible, then April is the Vestibule to Paradise. But, for sure, dump February ... No no no Feb is for the Caribbean!! If you look on a Globe, Greece is NOT down by the Caribbean, its more like Virginia or N. Carolina & even chllier in Feb wind & rain.