Thank you both so much! The only reason I am putting Zurich on the first and last night is because we are getting in late the first night and want to be in place the last night before we take off (thought I guess I should look to see how far Bern is from Zurich).
I thought a lot about the Lugano area. I love Italy and so do my kids... I originally modeled my itinerary after Rick's two week itinerary but it started to feel way to ambitious and frenetic and It seemed like I would be rushing us along all of the time (I am doing this as a single mom, so without a partner to help rally the troops so to speak, it would be hard). My kids are probably up for a good combo of city walking, hiking, museums, sightseeing, and some just plain chillin' out when we start to feel tired.
Four nights in Lucerne was designed to give us time to do Mt. Pilatus, maybe boat and tour around city, and mt Titlis? Maybe we only need three?
I love the idea of Lugano, but it seemed so far out of the way (that is why I hacked Lugano/Tirano and Zermatt off the itinerary (I have read that BO is way better than Zermatt, and I don't need to stay in a resort town to look at the Matterhorn necessarily).
How would I get down to Lugano, and back to some of these other sites-- What would make a good "loop" so to speak?
Re Montreaux, I was just thinking about local sites like the Chateau de Chilean, Gruyeres, Also (they like science) a day trip to Geneva to see CERN.
I added Bern in because I heard it was a cool city, and seemed to balance out the things we were checking out but would be willing to bail on it. It just seemed to help close the overall "loop" of my plan. But having not been there-- maybe there is another way to approach that part?
Re: Wengen. I have read there is so much to do around the BO and that this is a great home base, and totally unique. I know it is not as central as the valley floor, but just seemed to provide a unique Swiss experience, so I think this feels right to me.
Thoughts?