We are arriving in Zurich early morning of the 29th of September and plan to meet up with friends on October the 6th in Milan. We would like to spend most of our time in the Berner Oberland area and then travel to Lake Como to spend 2or 3 nights before meeting up with our friends. Our time in Switzerland is limited and we are trying to decide whether to spend our first night either in Luzern or Bern. We would appreciate any feedback. We will probably be traveling by train.
Also, we are trying to decide which village to stay in the BO area - Murren or Wengen. It looks like Wengen may be a bit larger after reading the RS Switzerland book. We would like charm, great views and some amenities nearby. Any suggestions there?